~Sleepover~

22|| "Dear Fat People"

You woke up and Blake was gone. You look over on your dresser and see a note.

Y/N,
Hey sorry I wasn't there to see that pretty face of yours wake up but I had church and I didn't want to wake you! Love you tons!!
                                   xoxo, Blake

Oh well. You get up and remember you have to film a YouTube video today! You want to do it ASAP because the lighting will be better during the day! Usually that doesn't matter but your lights are broken and your new ones are in the mail.

You go to the bathroom and jump in the shower. After that, you get dressed and run downstairs for some breakfast. You grab the Frosted Flake and pore it into an empty bowl. Screw milk. You run back up stairs with you dry cereal and go to your vanity. You quickly do your makeup and your hair.

You do a once over in the mirror. Eh, I've seen worse. You set up the camera and open a window for some natural light. You take a deep breath- you always get nervous while recording a video- and press play.

Y/N- Hey guys. What's up, it's Y/N! Now this weeks Sunday with Y/N is going to be a little different because I'm starting off this video angry. And I don't get angry often because my one hope and goal is to spread positivity through my videos online. But right now, the land of YouTube is raging with negative vibes over this body shaming video called "Dear Fat People." Now I'm not going to mention the name of the YouTuber that produced this video, nor am I going to link it, increasing their views and spreading this negative message that goes against everything I personally practice and preach. Now, if you wanna go investigate and see this video for yourself, I can't stop you. DON'T DO IT! Please watch this first. When you do see this video, I hope and pray that you have more emotional stability than I do because I took such offense to this video because I personally have had body image issues and still have them to this day. And that's something that I'm still working on myself. So, I was infuriated! My initial response was anger! I couldn't understand her a human being could be so outspoken and so judgmental about... others. ABOUT OTHER HUMAN BEINGS! It was claimed to comedy or "a satire," and personally, I didn't find it cometic in the slightest. But when you do react to this video, do not shame her as she has shamed an entire group of people. As much as I love the Internet, this is what it feeds into. Yes, you're angry! And yes, you disagree! I understand! But don't lower yourself to her standards by hating on her, too. And reacting, and commenting, and calling her, "a stupid ugly h** looking like you eat strait mayonnaise outa the jar mother******." It's not worth it! And it doesn't make you any better of a person than she is. Counteract her negativity by spreading your positive vibes, thoughts and messages. And with that, I'm done talking about this video. And what I really have to say... starts now. Dear... people. Whether you're fat, tall, skinny, short, young, old, black, white, blue, purple, green, yellow... we are people!! I'm so tired of seeing such sheer hate on hate online. And in person, for that matter. I know the world isn't a bunch of rainbows and butterflies and unicorns that poop cupcakes. But with the little power that I am so blessed to have on social media, I wanna send a positive mesh to my audience. Just as any social influencer wishes to do. So people... LIFT EACH OTHER UP!! Encourage one another. Support each other. If your friend has a dream or a goal, encourage them to chase it, to make it happen! Help them make it happen! Text them saying, "I believe in you!" Write them a little note that says, "You can do it!" Nothing means more than having the people you love, support you and believe in you. So don't put people down! What do you get out of hating on other people? NOTHING! That time and that energy you spend hating on them, is time you could've been using for becoming your best self. I don't know about you.. but I'm feeling 22. I don't know about you, but I am always looking to improve myself and become a better version of my former self. I just can't stop updating! Like an iPhone update. I'm fixing all my bugs and my glitches. "Oh, so you're just gonna keep updating so you're perfect?" No! Perfection does not exist! And we live in such a 'social media crazed' world, where we're constantly commenting and saying, "You're literally perfect!" "You are flawless!" And I say it myself, I ain't gonna lie. I'm working on that! UPDATING UPDATING! And "flaw-less?" It's those very flaws that make you beautiful. That makes you special and makes you unique. So when embrace those flaws. And by "flaws," I mean; uneven eyebrows, or uneven skin or if you don't think your nose is pretty! The little things that we nitpick and that we hate about ourselves, when really we should be embracing them because we were made that way. And what's imperfect is what is natural and that's what's beautiful about it. No one is perfect. But for some reason, we feel the need to be "perfect." But we try to become this perfection by imitating and copying others. "If I have her hair, and her nose, and her eye color, and her eyebrows cuz they always on fleek or whatever. And this and that, then I'll be perfect!" No! And it sucks because so much of this is based on your appearance, your physical characteristics. Which is exactly what this "Dear Fat People," video focuses on. We have become so focused on what we look like, that it's as if like we're almost losing the true importance about what's inside. Your personality, your morals, what you believe, what you love, who you are! Not what you look like! Never judge a book by its cover! And never even judge after you read the whole story. Just be you!
Be-you-tiful! That was corny, but it was cute... I know! But when you learn to accept yourself, love yourself, and to be yourself... you're able to love so much more about life itself! The moment that you stop thinking so hard about who you want to be, and just BE, you'll fun that comfort and you'll find that acceptance that you've been looking for. Don't look for acceptance in other people. Find it within yourself first, and those who except you for you and all the fricking weirdness you may be... they will come along and be weird right next to you. Now we've gotten used to these hatful videos and these hatful comments. And it's become a normality for us. And that SUCKS that we'd rather focus so much on our time and energy about something bad or negative instead of preaching and sharing things that are positive! So today I wanna challenge you to share some positivity. It can be a compliment towards someone like, "Hey, you look good today!" Smile at a stranger! Don't be too friendly though, it could get creepy... I'm just saying. Maybe text or call someone and say, "Hey, I was thinking of you! Hoping you're having a good day!" Go on Twitter and tweet something happy under #positivevibes instead of subtweeting your ex... OOOOOOOOO!!!! Maybe share this video! Just kidding ha... I mean if you want to. But do something to spread some kind of positive vibe. I promise you, not only can you make somebody else happy, but you will be rewarded with your own happiness just for making them happy! WOW THATS A LOT OF HAPPY! But hopefully this happiness and this positive message counteracts the negativity that's going around with this video! And I hope somewhere out in the universe a unicorn has been born with the ability to poop cupcakes! Thank you guys so much for watching! I felt very strongly about this video which is why I felt the need to address it! As I said, I have body image issues myself, and I know it's common, especially amount younger people. And I just want you all to know, that no matter what shape, size, color, or gender... that you were hand crafted to be who you are. And that you are beautiful just the way you are! Change yourself for no one! Only grow and evolve to become a better you. I really hope you enjoyed this video! And if you did... please like and subscribe! I'll see you guys next Sunday with Y/N. Little positive girl... OUT!!

You shut off your camera and take another deep breath.

That's enough for today!

You lay down and take a nap, waking up the day after.

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Two updates in one night!? Wow!! (Don't get used to it haha😂😂)

Omg this chapter TOOO so long to write!

Did you guys realize who this is??

ITS LIZA (aka LIZZZA)!!!

She's my favorite so yeah... you know!

The YouTube video is called ""DEAR PEOPLE"/ DEAR FAT PEOPLE REACTION| Lizzza"!!!

Her YouTube channel is Liza Koshy!!

I can barely keep my eyes open so I'm gonna go to sleep!!