Words Unspoken

Where Do Broken Hearts Go?

Where do broken hearts go? Can they really let go and move on?

It is so overwhelming to love and to be loved but it is also painful to be hurt by the people whom you love the most. Heartbreak is more painful than death. Atleast when you are dead, you'll feel numb; you won't feel the pain anymore. But when you're broken hearted, it's like every day you're dying because of pain and you want to do anything for it to stop and to just feel numb.

As one of Jonaxx's stories stated, "In this world, you can't go after the one you love without getting hurt." You can love someone you want but it doesn't mean they owe you their love because in the first place, they didn't asked you to love them.

We are hurt by different people. We are hurt in so many ways.

To the person we like but think of us only as a friend or simply they called friendzone.

To our boyfriend/girlfriend who doesn't give a fuck to us anymore.

To the person who can't reciprocate the love we give. As one of Jonaxx's stories stated, "It's not their love that's flawed. It is their lovers who are flawed. They failed to love the right person." It is not love that's flawed because love never fails, love always wins.

We all have our own ways of moving on but what's important is that you are willing to move forward.

All we need is time, time to heal and mend a broken heart. You don't need to force yourself to never love him again or to never always think about her all the time. Just love them, continue giving love until one day there's no love left; just love them until one day you finally gave up. And when you love again, you should love yourself first because you can't give true and sincere love if you are not whole yet.

It's okay to be hurt and be sad as your relationship ended, but it is better to cherish the moments you spent happy. Your happiest moments will always prevail compared to the times you are sad. And if it hurts big time, it is because he made you the happiest woman even just for a while.

And the most important to do for you to move on is to learn to accept things. Acceptance. I know it is hard and it hurts a lot but it will make everything better. As they say, the more you hold something, the heavier it gets. So once in a while, put it down. You don't need to live a life full of pain and uncertainties. You have to free yourself from pain. You have to accept that somethings isn't meant to be and better things will come in your way.

"Love is something your cells and tissues memorize and you can't do anything about it because you are made of it." - Jonaxx, no matter how painful love is, it is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again.

When you love, be ready to get hurt. Loving strives in hurting. Because when you don't get hurt, you'll never learn. When you don't fail at some point, you'll never grow. Failing and hurting will always test you and eventually makes you a better person.

Always remember that you are capable of moving on as you are capable of falling in love.

Where do broken hearts go? Can they find their way home, back to the open arms of a love that's waiting there...

Where do broken hearts go ba, Tita Whitney? Sa Rome? Manila? Baguio? O Sagada?

Broken hearts go to their life's next chapter of wonderful love story written by God.

They go to places where their broken pieces would be whole again...