When I was a child I used to do everything without thinking, I just used my vision, my ears.. But not my mind
But when I got older I started using my mind, and that is the first mission of growing up
The human's mind is the most important part in his body, it's the control center
By your mind you can imagine, do things, love and hate things, and think.
Talking about the most important parts we say After your mind comes your thoughts, see if you think of someone positively you'll like that person, if you think of them negatively you won't feel comfortable being with them.
Same with your life, if you think positive you will actually live a happy positive life, we really do have to ignore the negative things and start living the positive ones, life is really short and you won't know when your turn is coming to go away
Some people uses the negative thinking on the wrong things and the positive ones on the wrong things too, as an example they think positive of alcohol, drugs, sex and all these sort of things, and they think negative of being nice, healthy and religious
They see drugs and chocolate as heaven but praying and helping as an activities only fools does, but actually that is absolutely wrong
Drugs can be cool, but can actually kill you, chocolate is Bae, but a lot of it will make you fatThe human's mind was built on a free system that your feelings rules, the things you like will be chased after by you, the things you don't like will be ignored, and this is actually a huge problem, some people likes drugs they spend every single thing they have to get it just because they like it
It's because they think positive of it, then they like it.. It gets into their mind like a cancer and rules it, everything they see has to have connection with drugs, they ignore the negative things of it
Let's make an example
The wrong thinker
Positive:
•Alcohol will make you forget everything (yes)
•Alcohol will help you solve your problems (yes)
•Alcohol will make you happy (yes)
Negative:
•Alcohol will make you homeless (ignore)
•Alcohol will get you heart disease (ignore)
•Alcohol will make you do stupid things (ignore)
((Now let's take a look at the smart thinker))
Positive:
•Alcohol will make you homeless (Yes)
•Alcohol will get you heart disease (Yes)
•Alcohol will make you do stupid things (Yes)
Negative:
•Alcohol will make you forget everything (ignore) •Alcohol will help you solve your problems (ignore) •Alcohol will make you happy (ignore)See it is absolutely different, it is the same with loving people and hating them, loving places or hating them, loving things and hating them loving celebrities or hating them.
The way you think of people.. Places or things will make you like or hate them.
If I think of the negative things that my friend did, surely I will hate that friend, if I think of the positive things he did, I will absolutely keep him in my life
To live a happy wealthy fancy life think of every single positive thing you have, to love someone we think of every positive thing they did
Feelings can be controlled by your mind, you can't do a right action without using your mind, you have to use it in every single situation you have in your life
If you want a healthy life you think negative of the things that makes you unhealthy such as eating sugars or watching porn or drinking alcohol or taking drugs smoking cigarettes.. Think negative of these things and your heart will hate it you automatically will start leaving it slowly, however if anyone tried to tell you the negative things of the bad things you do you won't actually leave it until your mind think negative of it, your heart automatically will leave it..
What I suggest is that we as a humans should start thinking positive of every positive thing in our life, and think negative of every negative thing in our life to live a happy life
How can a person actually live a happy life if he thinks of the sad things that happened or will happen
It is like I live in China and can't speak Chinese and I'm learning African..
Same with your life, you're living in a paradise but because of thinking of it as a hell you'll live it as a hell
Think positive of yourself and you will be positive, Think positive of someone and you will like them
Think positive of an activity and you will do it everyday
Think negative of the stupid things and you'll leave it