When you think or feel or are convinced that you love someone or are in love with them...
I get that 'love doesn't know what distance is' and that age and size and things like that are just numbers but....
Is there a set time on how soon you can fall or how long it takes (or It should take) for you to fall for someone?
Within a month, this guy from my old school has become my best friend and has gained as much trust as my bestest friend and I've known HIM since 6th grade and we've been that close since August. And to be completely honest, I don't/can't trust a lot of people these days.
But, the guy I am very interested in (I guess you could say), I have only known since last year (I am in 11th and we met in Choir class in my 10th grade year.)We never talked or hung out except when he dated my (now ex) best friend. And even that was very minimal. But, I sent him a friend request on facebook around New Year's and he sent me a message asking if it was me (because I had left that school in May and he left Choir before May).
Now, I was always infatuated with him. Though he dated someone who was my "BFF" at the time, I still had a little thing for him. But, putting that aside, we became cool/good friends in a small amount of time. Then, he became my best friend (or one of the main ones, ya know?One of my closest friends I should say) and I started to trust him as I do my bestest friend (again, who I have known for almost 6 years). And then my feelings started to kick back in once we first started talking. And we literally talk every day. Sometimes, all day when neither of us are are busy. And then he admitted before I did that he felt something for me.
He is basically another me. Everything I have felt, he has. Everything I like (for the most part), he likes. We think the same way on 98% of the things we talk about or encounter. He supports me, in every way needed. He actually is interested (or at least pretends to be) in whatever I have to say. HE OFFERED TO LET ME GO THROUGH HIS PHONE AND I NEVER EVEN ASKED FOR IT!(Long story lmao ) But, there was something going on and he literally said that I could go through his messages on his phone. He understands me in a helluva lot of ways. He's practically everything I ever asked for in someone who could be a 'potential candidate' for my next relationship. No, he's not perfect. But, I really feel like he's perfect for me...If not for forever, at least for now.
Yes. I see how childish this all seems... But, can you just entertain me for the moment and give me an honest opinion?
Is there a time frame or a minimum time limit of falling for someone? Or thinking that you fell for someone?
This dude though... 😍😍😍
I literally just can't even begin to know where to start. We total click in every way possible!!!
Let's just say it's my own little fairy tale except instead of a knight in shining armor or my prince charming, he's my knight in rusty armor. (It's just something I say). And that's ok, because I would love to live this fairy tale any day.
Everything is absolutely 100% comepletely different and it's fanastic... For now. I can't speak for the future that I can't predict.
I feel safe, respected, cared for/about and I trust him and everything else that a person should feel with someone they want to be with or are with.
So, again... Back to my question....
Is there a certain amount of time set on how soon you could possibly fall or start to fall or even think you're falling for someone? Or is time just another 'it's only a number' things?
