The struggles of a Nigerian girl

First Boyfriend?

       Till this day, am not really sure who my first boyfriend was or how many boyfriend have had. I know it sounds weird but I don't know if I should count my first relationship or not. Lemme tell you guys the story so you will decide.
      So there was this guy, will name him Micheal for security reasons. Anyways, Micheal and I knew each other since js 2 but we never spoke and I basically didn't notice him till around ss1 when he developed a weird obsession with me.
    At that time I didn't get it because I was super insecure I didn't under why anyone could like me, I was boobless and super skinny with a non existent ass (back then I thought boobs and ass were everything) not like I got big boobs and ass now😒 but I like to think it was my awesome personality, what I lack in boobs and ass (and I lack a lot) I make up with an awesome personaliy😚. Anyways Micheal seemed to really like me and I just didn't like him back because back then I was into liyel but Micheal was really patient and super funny and you know what they say about funny guys, you never know when you fall in love with them.
      Well this wasn't one of those situations. No matter what he did I just couldn't bring myself to like him. Anyways through out ss1, Micheal kept on proclaiming his supposed love to me and asking me out but I never did agree.
   Ss 1 finally came to an end and we all went home for the summer holiday. My love for liyel had disappeared and I was normal again. One night, Micheal and I were chatting on Facebook and he asked me out one more time. Up till now I don't know what happened or changed that made me say yes because am still very sure I didn't like him. The only explanation I can come up with is that somehow I felt pity for him and just decided to agree.
    I logged out of Facebook immediately I send yes. I thought about what I just did and I realized I made a mistake but I also couldn't go back and say no instead so I decided to see how it goes. The next day I called Michael and his phone isn't going through and i thought nothing of it. I kept calling him through out the summer holiday and his phone never went through.
   The summer holiday was a long enough time for me to realize my mistake so I decide to call off whatever we were doing as soon as we resumed school and I saw him in school.
   When the summer holiday was over, we resumed school and I found out that he changed schools and I didn't have anyway to contact him as his phone was still not reachable. So basically, I was in a relationship (if it counts as one) where I haven't spoken to my "boyfriend" since we supposedly started dating.
    Basically, we never spoke again till I graduated from high school and by then our so called relationship was forgotten.
    I still don't know if the relationship counts and if Michael can be called my first boyfriend or so. So I have to ask you guys, does this relationship count? Was this my first relationship? Is Michael really my first boyfriend? When am counting my past boyfriends or exes, am I meant to count Micheal also???