Many girls go around looking at other couples and thinking, "I will never get that. No one will ever love me like that." Trust me, I have thought those same things. I have done that a lot. I look at cute couples and I think, "I'm so jealous. No guy will think I am that attractive. And once he gets past that, he will be weirded out by how weird I am."
But you will find a person one day who will think of you and smile so hard that their face will begin to crack. Their world will be flipped upside down because they met you. The wonderful, beautiful you. You are worthy of love and to be loved. I may have written about this before, but it needs to be said over and over again. You deserve the world's finest things. It doesn't matter where you came from, your appearance, your weight, nothing. You deserve the best; be it the best food, the best shoes, or the best love, you deserve it all. A lot of girls think that they don't deserve the best so they set the bar low, allowing guys who are terrible and don't know how to properly treat a woman to be their partner. Another misconception is that it is conceited to think that you are worth it, worth the best, and don't deserve trash. But it is not conceited. You do deserve the best. Get out of the mentality that you are never going to be good enough. You already are good enough just the way you are.You will probably meet a lot of guys who hit on you or try to get with you before you meet the person you are meant to be with, but that is typically what happens in life and in dating. You will mine a lot before you find the gold. But remember, there is a person out there mining for you, too. You are someone's gold.
But you are also your own gold. Be confident and strong. Don't let anyone ever put you down or try to dampen your spirit. Live free. Keep dreaming big. You are the future. You can conquer anything that you set your mind to. Once you know that and start to believe that, your world will change. You will go into every situation knowing that you can win and you won't be cowering anymore.
You are worth it! Don't spend time with people who treat you poorly, lie to you, pretend to like you, or talk behind your back. They don't need to be in your life. Keep your head held high and plow past all of them. When you look back at your life, you will remember them and think how they accelerated your drive and determination in life.
You are worth everything! So the next time you start to downgrade yourself, pause and take a breath.
I am worth it. I am worthy of love and to be loved. I am worthy of my goals. I can do this.
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{Daily Affirmations for Girls}
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