The black magic known as Art plus randomness

Question

Have you ever stopped and looked at everything your parents have done wrong?

I mean...how a child acts reflects on the parents. How they raise you. Treat you.

Have you ever looked at if a child acts needy, they get too little attention or if they always want to be alone they get too much?

Or if they just want to relax they get too many chores and responsibilities?

If a child wants another person's things it shows how a parent gives them everything they want it shows how they have no choices or if they never know then they get too many choices?

If a child is secretive...it shows how a parent doesn't reach out and go to THEM or the parents are too...close and doesn't give them time to themselves?

Or if the parents get divorced or fight a lot it reflects on hoq their child perceives emotion and LOVE?

...I mean...you need to do this BEFORE they reach ten...or their mind is set in place. Their personality...

Sorry. I guess I'm tired...

Of my own parents...