It's a thing about women.
They see various kinds of attitudes surfacing ones mind. They tend to read minds.
Since we women tend to think a lot as compared to men.
You being a woman, may not really know about a man's way of thinking. You may not be aware of their opinions. But you certainly can decode the sneck of their brains by the talents you possess.
Can you not?
Women, y'know phenomenal and wondrous.
*flip hair with a smirk*
As for men?
Oh some men are bland and humdrum. Although in thinking they all are the same.
Ordinary men with uninspiring and average lives.
Men think differently, in contrast to women.
Whereas, all women have the same way of thinking.
They have just one goal in mind.....to be known by the people who surround them for their good looks and which brand make up they use to decorate their faces.
There are millions of girls who judge and are judged by others, who may say inappropriate things about each other and still be friends.
I'm not saying being a friend to someone is wrong but yes, to be a fake friend?
Highly unfeasible.
In fact, any one with humanistic tendencies would do so. It's in the blood of us all, to judge and be judged by others even if we don't initially intend to, but do we stop?
No.
We eventually land ourselves in the deepest pits of jealousy, resentment, bitterness, distrust, vigilance which often leads to insecurities that brim up at the top of our heads and never leave us at peace.
Is it an issue?
Maybe.
Maybe not.
It depends on the perspective of every person. Who knows you might not agree with me on this, or you may?
You choose to do whatever you want to do.
And nobody has a say in that.
Nobody.
I may see my self as Emma Watson, you may see your self as Nina dobrev, she may see her self as Jennifer Lawrence, somebody else will see her self as Selena Gomez.
So what does it matter to think yourselves as somebody else, maybe that's a clue you give yourself that you are a great admirer of that person, a believer of that lady, maybe she inspired you and still does, maybe she is the one you see yourself acting like. You can't stop yourself from imagining who you are or why you want to become who you are not.
What matters most is the way you see yourself, not how others want you to portray yourself to them.
You may love the person you are, or you may not. You may want to be the person you see each day.
So who is anyone to decide what you should be when you are firm in what you want to be?
Next time, if anyone tells you that you are like someone they admire, just wave it off, cause you don't see yourself the way they see you, so how does their opinion about you matter anyway?
You know yourself better than anyone else does. Have that belief, and just walk away with pride.
So what, if you are dark, tanned or white skinned?
Apprise others of who you love being.
That you love the essence of your own skin and they can keep their suggestions on what you look better in, to themselves.
You don't need their ideas to base your life on. You don't need their opinions on which you lay your future.
You don't need to listen to them to know your capabilities. Cause you love yourself no matter what.
No matter how you dress up, dab makeup or don't, eat, sing, or dance, sleep deep or shallow, walk like an oldie or a newbie, skip your work or don't, live to love your soul or others, live to be believed or to believe.
Live to be loved, or to spread love.
It doesn't matter!
You know you live to love yourself the way you are and accept the truth of life? Then that's all you need and all you will need now.
So simply smile to those who give you disgust cause you are not going to loose anything if you smile, they will. *winks*
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[A/N]: Love yourself the way you are.
Point to be noted. :)
Love
~ Loriz ;-)
