Cousins: Starting Families

31: Groupchat -- "What Y'all Doing??"

Care 🐻:
Soooo Konnie is over?!

✌🏻 Kol ✌🏻:
Yes. I called it quits. We tried to talk and she took no responsibility for her actions or the blame for the tension between us. She doesn't think what she's doing is wrong--spending time with Kai and not me. And I'm too old to stick around for some bullshit. She's not worth it. No one will ever be worth my time, waiting around for them to decide to treat me right

Tay 😽😽:
Preach, baby!

Hails 👸🏻:
We all just want the best for you Kol. Your like my brother. And I don't like seeing you hurt ❤️

Me:
You did what was best. You know I've supported your decision since the beginning

Hubby 💙👅:
You knew he was breaking up with her?

Kol ✌🏻:
She didn't know per se. She knew I was thinking about it

Hails 👸🏻:
What does it matter who knew, Damon? I've imagined them breaking up months ago when it first proved to be a problem

Care 🐻:
Same tbh. It's not fair to you Kol, and I understand completely

Hubby 💙👅:
So how problematic is me hanging out with Elena to all of you?

Me:
No ones encouraging breakups unless it's toxic. He was hurting and she blatantly ignored it.

Hubby 💙👅:
That wasn't my question

Me:
You know my answer, you dick

Stef 💚:
I think it's 95% problematic

Ty 👌🏻:
I do too. You spend way too much time with her. If I didn't know any better I'd assume she was your girlfriend

Care 🐻:
I love Elena. But I have to agree. I think she has feelings for you. I don't know if they ever really died but since she dumped Dylan she's been all over you Damon

Kol ✌🏻:
You know it's problematic or you wouldn't have asked

Me:
RIGHT¡¡¡

Hubby 💙👅:
So do you think I treat you like shit?

Me:
What¿ No, Damon. I'm not saying that. I'm saying you treat me like 2nd or 3rd place. If you're worried, don't be, Kol and I aren't in the same exact boat. We've talked and talked about it and you've tried to listen and work on it. And you're not ignoring my feelings completely. But it's problematic because look at where we are right  now

Hails 👸🏻:
I thought y'all weren't fighting? 🤔🤔

Ty 👌🏻:
Yeah. Are y'all good?

Me:
We aren't fighting. We're just doing our own things. He has things he likes to do, things that don't involve me or aren't with me. So I'm going to do my own thing too. I'm done begging for his time and attention because it's got me nowhere. So if he wants to spend time with me it's up to him to make that time slot. And we will just be in this standoff. Because my feelings will NEVER change on the subject. Him and Elena's "friendship" is disrespectful and inappropriate. He knows that and I don't know what he plans to do to fix things with me