So many people yearn for warmth from a person they care for
They'll share a part or parts of them
Only for someone to just tell them
"You need to let things go" or
"It's alright,calm down" or even
"Stop complaining"
That's not the way to go about it
If you can't comfort the person,find a way to extract yourself from that place.
Sometimes you need to let a person rant about their feelings or something their angry or having mixed feelings about,listen to them,after listening then tell them to take heart,comfort them.
If you do not give someone the warmth they need,that person will detach themselves from you,their feelings and people around them as well. And sometimes it's not because of what's happening inside,it's more of feeling unloved,unwelcome and a liability just because someone made them feel that way by just a simple yet great action/word.
~R3D
