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Gossips 🤐

Gossips!

Make a habit of shutting down conversations that aim to tear others down.

Gossips - is idle talk or rumor, especially about the personal or private affairs of others.

I can't blame others why are they so good on doing that, maybe for some, they were hurt
Or experienced something like that in their lives but I can't see any good on it.

Many of us experienced being a topic or an item for others. Even if it's fact or just  a rumor still it's a gossip.

I recently had a hurtful event happen in my life that reminded me what I already knew: gossip is a poison that kills relationships and it can be hurtful and are completely unnecessary.
I lost some friends and get to know who has left with me during that  moment. The one who stood by your side and have the guts to confront those who gossips about you to let them know that we or at least someone is aware of what they are doing.

Ikaw nangyari na din bay an sayo? Meron ka din bang kaibigan na ganyan......

Kahit anung sabihin nila tama man or mali sometimes you will really get affected on it. Be honest... Naramdaman nyo din to... like na parang lalayuan mo na yung mga taong nakapaligid sayo
KASI YOU AREN'T SO SURE IF THEY ALSO GOSSIP ABOUT YOU.  I got less of friends lang to be with na after, kasi some of them betrayed me for that piece of tsismis.
Kapag nakaharap sayo kaibigan mo, mabait sayo and once tumalikod ka na they will start telling stories about you whom apparently they just heard from others mouth. You can't control things kpag gusto ka nila talaga pag usapan or sirain they will do it.
It is usually people who know the least or care the least about a situation that somehow "have the most to say."

Minsan din nmn papatulan mo na kasi below the belt na ang tira nuila sayo.   I always tell my good friends that "I wish they'd get a life so they can stop talking about mine!" they see my point naman;
And say na don't mind them na lang kasi most productive people have no time to spare complaining, comparing, competing, condemning, and criticizing others. And sinasabi din nila sa akin na, many talk about others because they are lacking or hiding something in their own personal lives.
Which is sometimes True.

For all of us who experienced it, I would like to say na just be strong lang and
the most important fact to remember is that it really doesn't
matter what other people think you are, it's who you really are that truly matters. Like Dr. Seuss always says:

Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind, don't matter.

When someone wants to gossip to you or in your presence: change the subject or Confront the people who gossip about you and set boundaries.

It would be great if we all focused on mastering ourselves, rather than wasting time gossiping, passing judgment, and betraying people behind their backs.


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