"Relationships"

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By:  Jeremy R. Rutherford

It's not really that diverse or hard to figure out..it's again about choices, consequences and consideration.

How hard would it be to look at this from an objective lens on the subjective realities? As in it's a personal choice on the person(s)?

A. If you're single, open and honest with your partner(s), then it shouldn't matter to anyone and everyone should logically practice safe sexual conduct. (Sexual gender/ orientation really doesn't matter at this point on any side).

B. If you're in a happy, monogamous relationship with another person, then consideration of the other person is taken into ALL accounts, on both sides, because, you are in a committed, single relationship. Communication and agreement on sexual practices are both of the persons and their business alone, outsiders don't matter in the "scope".

C. If you are in an "open"/ polyamorous relationship, then safe sex should be practiced and communication should be fielded to all people involved for all intents and purposes. (Again, sexual gender/ orientation isn't really a factor here).

In all of these, the only people it should concern are the people involved. Others have no place or position for consideration in the matter. If there is "cheating/ unknowns" involved, that's a choice and repurcussion that falls squarely on the shoulders of the person(s) doing the action.

Race doesn't matter at all, we are all one, human. Gender isn't really an issue either, we are all human. Be with who you are with, be happy, live and love. It's your choice to be Single, Monogamous or Open/ Poly, we are all human.

Personally, I think this stems from another aspect of the need to judge others and not much to do with "relationship stucture problems".

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