Science Journal

How men control their emotions?

I envy how men manage their emotions. They can control their tears even when they are watching how Rose let go Jack from the Titanic movie. As if their tear ducts are damaged, not enabling them to shed even a single tear. I want that kind of skill. I despised how crybaby I am whenever I watch a tragic movie or an emotional video. Though expressing your sadness through crying is healthy but I really hated it. So I dig into their secrets on how they control their emotions.

According to omniscient Google, I was surprised to learn that men are more emotional than women; they are just good at hiding or controlling their tears. It is the society that taught hem to use their prefrontal cortex than bursting out emotions because letting it out is a sign of weakness. Since they value their pride than their feelings they try to paint their pitiful sadness into calm nonchalant demeanor.  They process the sadness inwardly and keep it to themselves. Also, crying for them reduces their manliness so they suppress their emotions but when they reached the time they could not handle their overflowing outraging emotions, they let it out through anger. Sometimes they could not control their beastly rage that it needs a lot of people to stop them and punch their face if they did not calm down and remind them to act rationally and suppress their inner beast. 

But still, I was amazed on their manageable skills in emotions. Since it is a skill, I will start watching a lot of tragedies in order to dry my tear ducts and numb my feelings. Kidding. Tears are important. I rather learn how to hide my tears in a maneuver way.