Heyyy!
So I was going through the Whatsapp status of my contacts today and I came upon this question.
"Yo parents die in a hit and run car accident... You finally meet someone that takes yo mind off it and you get your happiness in life back, and y'all decide to tell y'all deepest secrets the night before the wedding and their secret is that they killed two people in a hit and run, the same day, same year, same place as yo parents and never got caught, but they feel bad every night... Still pure at heart, just scared like anyone else would be. Wedding still on?"
Her response was, "Wedding is off immediately".
Seemed like the most likely option doesn't it?
But when you think about it like really think about, meditate on what love is truly...
For that person to be the only one to be able to take your mind off it, it means that you love the person beyond words, beyond human reasoning. If you can't forgive then you never loved him in the first place.
Love isn't complete without giving... Forgiving... Forgiveness. With love comes forgiveness... God is love... Don't we all aspire to be like the Father?
And if you're unable to forgive him, honestly darling, you'll never be truly free... You'll be trapped in this bitter sphere for the rest of your life and regardless of the fact that your parents know that he's their killer, they won't want you to live your life that way.
I think it's even God's way of giving him another opportunity to redeem himself; he that brought darkness to your life is now the brightest sun in it.
He's giving you a chance to redeem YOURSELF. For several years you have held this insanely intense anger and grudge against the one who orphaned you and now you have the opportunity to look him in the eye and say with all your heart, "I forgive you; I love you" to finally free your caged soul.
Yes, you'll be angry.
Yes, you'll want to destroy his very soul if you could at that moment. But anyone who truly knows the concept of love, not the flimsy fuzzy feeling, nor the huff and puff, bang and dang love...no... TRUE LOVE, will know this. Yes anger may abound now, but forgiveness is imminent.
Reste beni 😌
Nenye_Okoye✍🏽
