MY MR. PRESIDENT BOYFRIEND

CHAPTER 7

TIPS SA PANLILIGAW – ALDRED

And2 ako sa hide-out ng ULTIMATE SWAGGERS.

<Aldred POV>

Tulala na naman tong mokong na toh! Anu bay an? Anung problema nito, di naman ganyan yan, dati! INLOVE kasi....wala kaming magagawa

“Pre anung problema? JESSICA LIM na naman ba?”

“Ou, di ko kasi matiyempuhan pre, !”

“Tiis lang pre, kung kelangan mo lang ng expertise ko sa panliligaw and2 na  lang ako…” pagmamayabang ko sa kanya, napasuntok na lang siya sa akin…SERYOSO kasi yong tao, puro kalokohan gingawa ko.

“Tulungan mo ko pre,”

“Ou naman, ikaw pa besfriend kita”

“Salamat pre,” bumiso siya, yack, bading bading…

“First na dapat mong gawin mo magpacharm ka muna sa kanya.”

“Paano?”

“Sus, 1st. BE AWARE. This means cracking open more than the sports section on the daily paper. Be upon current events and learn the difference between feelings, emotions and thoughts. Women are emotional beings and tend to think things through. Alam mo kasi naatract ang mga girls minsan sa mas matatalino kaysa sa kanila.

2nd. DEMONSTRATE HUMOR. Women love a man who can make them laugh. Now don't fret here if you're not a stand-up comedian. We all have a certain type of humor. You can be dry, sarcastic, hilariously funny, quick-witted or dark. Being able to poke fun at yourself and just plain old being goofy is a turn-on for women. Ngunit pre, paunawa hindi lahat ng babae ay pare-pareho kayo, ingat ingat.

3rdHAVE PASSION. A guy who lives his life with gusto is incredibly appealing. When you speak to a woman about your life, your travels, your job, your interests, speak with passion. That passion about who you are will turn her on instantly. She will start to imagine what it will be like when you are involved with her and how passionate you will speak about her.

4th. BE CONSIDERATE. Pay attention to the little things and look for opportunities to make small gestures that show you care. A simple "How was your day?" and being able to listen to her when she wants to discuss something are huge. So many men forget about simple things like holding the door, paying for her valet or just thanking her for a great time last night. Women are all about a guy with manners -- she is not attracted to the dope who acts like a caveman.

5TH.   BE HONEST.  Share who you are by telling her something personal. Maybe share one of your favorite childhood memories or some personal growth that you have been going through. Something that will show her that you are a trusting and honest person. It also shows that you are a confident but vulnerable man. Women love to see the vulnerable side of you. Note: Don't talk about an ex in a bad way here. If you have to talk about an ex, do so in a positive manner and share what you learned and how you grew from the relationship.

6th BE FLEXIBLE. Be open to her plans but surprise her with your flexibility. Take charge and surprise her with a fun night out. Instead of being the typical guy who makes a reservation, think about how you can be the guy who listens to her and plans a great date that she did not expect. If you can pull this off, she will be open to all sorts of advances from you.

7th. BE POSITIVE. If you are positive about life, it shows in your actions. I always tell men to be extra nice to waiters, bartenders and other service people. Be a courteous driver when she's in the car. When you are in line at the movies, don't complain. Look for the humor and try to have fun with people all around you. Be positive about everything, and she will find you to be very sexy and alluring. No one wants to be with a negative hothead.