The struggles of being a bisexual

Things i have learned over time

( I haven't talked about me being bi so les gay this thing UPPP)
See I made the mistake of coming out to this one person that told everyone so now like all of my friends know. I wish I had just shut the hell up, but I chose to learn the hard way, I feel like it's just something every queer person has to go through Learning on how to say it or who to tell. Especially since I have known since I was really young I had to learn the hard way because I didn't want to listen. How was I supposed to believe from straight people that I needed to keep to myself so I can continue to stay safe. And this is what I have learned since then:

Don't come out to everyone that you think you can trust here is why: it's none of their business who cares , look Ik it seems hard but most of us are in school right, can you wait, you can tell your extremely close friends and i hope you are comfortable at home but your "friends" don't truly care about others. They see our sexuality as a rumor and drama topic. It's like termites they go to one place to another destroying everything in between. do what you want honestly im just saying.

Don't come out to every queer person either: trust me Ik it's so tempting and I have done it the outcome isn't that great. In my case they told everyone and this is where I am now :) remember it's your choice, like you can come out to anyone you want just be cautious darling.

Let yourself grow: give yourself time to wiggle in and out of phases and thoughts: For a sec I thought I was full gay and then I realized that even if I was I had all of my life to figure it out and I am still a proud bisexual 🏳️‍🌈. Besides it's your sexuality just give yourself room to breath don't be so hard on yourself. You are doing great. Take a breath and continue on. Now everything is gonna be okay.

Being queer isn't they only part of you: sometimes even I forget that it's a sexuality/attraction not a personality or a stereotype. You can be or act more feminine/masculine but not necessarily be gay. The kids around me don't know that and it's a fat pet peeve of mine. It's a great part of you but don't let the struggles take over.

Don't have a crush on people only because they are also queer : #beentheredonethat not fun and only makes you feel stupid, waste of time.
You have to like them for they're overall soul and mind( or whatever is on your list)

Live and let live, things happen for a reason, and whatever you think is gonna happen life switches it up and knocks you on your ass (always be on your toes)