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Anonymous Interview 3

What do you identify as (gender, sexuality, romatic etc, etc)?:

Hi. I am a Panromantic, Genderfluid, asexual. (I think...)

Do you mind explaining what those terms mean for those in our audience who might not understand, or if you may have a different meaning than most people?:

Panromantic- Being able to have romantic feelings towards someone, no matter the gender or what's in their pants.Genderfluid- someone who doesn't identify themselves as having a fixed gender.Asexual- a person who does not feel any sexual attraction

Did/do you ever struggle with accepting yourself? If yes, why?:

Yes, I still do, because at such a young age heteronormality is so strong, even I began to wonder of it was just a phase... I mean only 3 months ago I thought I was bisexual, and now, my sexual orientation is still shifting! Asexual? Demisexual? One day I'll make up my mind, but today, today is the first time I've actually deemed myself as genderfluid out loud. So when it comes to accepting myself, I think I'm doing an okay job.

Have you come out of the closet to your family? If so, how did they react?:

I have yet to come out to my blood family BUT I am openly supportive of the LGBTQ+ society! My mother agrees with me, but she "doesn't want that lifestyle for herself." Which I mean, Okay its your opinion, but, aaaggghhhh what's that supposed to mean?? Coming out to my father is a no go. To say the least. He's kinda super homophobic, which is sad. But I came out at school! Yay! Well I mean if someone asks me I'll tell them... and only one person asked me....Anyways! I also came out to my best friend, lets say his name is Phoenix. He is a transgender kiddo, I have been there since before his transition and I couldn't be happier. When I told him he was all like: Im so proud of you! No problem you're my best ducking friend And tbh I had my suspicions. And no we are the best, together : D. He was the first person I told, and he is very supportive.

What advice would you give other member of LGBT who may be closeted or having a hard time accepting themselves?:

If I could give advise to everyone in the LGBTQ+ society, I would tell anyone that is still figuring out themselves, as I am, that, being unsure of your identity, is okay! You may want to try to ask a close friend, hopefully a LBGTQ+ member, about your confusions, and be open to having a discussion. Most of the times, holding in feelings of confusion, sadness, or anger may lead to a breakdown. Im sure that everyone wants a normal, happy life, free of breakdowns, just remember to talk to someone, let it out. (Omg I sould like a therapist) Maybe even talk to a trusted adult about your identity. Just never forget that you are who you are, and that is perfect.