This is a relationship that I have some first- hand experience with so I will try my best to help anyone.
The denial is when you like someone but you don't admit it because they are not 'good' for you. This could be because they are not in the same rung as you in the social ladder or because they are not your type or other similar reasons.
Because of this denial you feel like your heart is about to explode with confusion. And you end up not only feeling depressed but also making everyone else around you depressed. It's almost as if you are on non- stop PMS.
My advice to anyone who is confused or in denial is to sit down in a quiet, peaceful place and think.
Questions to ask yourself-
- Do I really like this person or is it just an infatuation?
- If I do like them, what qualities do I like about them?
- How do I feel when I am around them?
- Will this relationship lead to any pain for me in the future?
The above questions are just guidelines for anyone confused. But the most important thing is to follow your gut instincts. In life it is important to think carefully about things but the one thing you should follow your gut instincts in is love. If you make a mistake, you can start over as long as it's not a stupid mistake like falling pregnant.
So that's the denial :)
If you have any further questions about the denial send me a private message.
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