SATISFACTION IS NO MORE

Finding a Perfect Match

Finding a perfect match for marriage is another problematic situation for a person and their guardians as they are always confused about requirements. The young man who has to marry a girl has different expectations and their parents' view to look at this situation is very different. However, they are struggling in their minds and they haven't shared their thoughts yet. Young man looks for a professionally equal match who earn an equal to his earnings and he knows in the future what things will be helpful for him so he is very careful about these aspects along with this he is also confused and worried about the complex consequences as he knows that life will change after marriage and he also will have to devote a portion of his time to his life partner as every partner has expectation from his other half. The young man is also very much worried about the tough situation as he listens tales form his married friends about the married life. He creates a fear in his mind to marry.

Although he is financially stable enough, he can handle situations where there is an increase in money utilization in household errands. But there are also some exceptions as after marriage there is a situation where they have to celebrate rituals with family and relatives this puts an extra burden on pocket.

Parents look differently to this situation, when they start looking for a bride for his son, they have their different expectation. they make a long list of requirements and they create a list and spread it with relatives and marriage bureau so that they can have multiple options on which they can consider and after that they do prioritization. another factor is they look for a family which is equal in status as they have. This is a problematic situation because meeting all their requirements is not an easy task. So, they start wondering about a perfect match for a long time. And conditions can be more complicated so their mind faces many ups and downs.

Finally, when they sit together to decide to finalize the match for marriage the real war starts in between parents and their son. generation gap starts to get visible between them. No one wants to get down their thoughts. But this cold war ends soon and they conclude to finalize one of the best options for doing the marriage.