Now let's get down to business and to the good stuff.
It was a month and a half before her birthday and I was stuck on what to give her for her present.
One day I had trouble accessing something a co-worker sent me on my phone, I asked if I could borrow her laptop to see if I could view it better there.
She handed me her laptop, while I'm checking her mouse decides to randomly have a mind of its own and click out of what I had up, well let's just say that I found out what she does when she is on her laptop and that is writing. I briefly read it and it had BD/SM content.
Which inspired me to finally be able to get something for her birthday. If she was writing it, she was at least interested in trying it for real right?
So for her birthday, I bought a whip, blindfold, satin scarf, feather, handcuffs, shackles.
On the day of her birthday, I was excited to give her gift. When I handed it to her and she opened it I quickly confessed.
"I accidentally read what you were doing. I mean it when I say it was an accident, I did not mean to snoop. I hope you can forgive me."
"I believe you and thank you for the gift now I have to ask why did you buy it?"
"I figured if you were writing about it you were interested in trying it."
"You are correct now the question is are you interested in this stuff?"
I know I haven't been exactly an open book towards her, the reason for it was because she just wanted something casual, I didn't want to get too attached if the end result was going to be me heartbroken.
"Yes, but it would be the dominant part of it. I'm guessing you want to be the Domme?"
"Yes, but if you want to be the dominant one maybe we can find a compromise?"
"How about we start with you being the Domme and if at any point we want to change it up I'll be the dominant one?"
"That sounds good to me. Now, do you want this as a bedroom type of relationship or a 24/7 dynamic?"
I thought about it.
"How about we have the dynamic going on when I visit?"
"Not a bad idea."
"Also maybe you can give me some rules while I am away. Just to see if I make a good sub when we are a part."
"I can do that. Do you want to do some research together before we dive into our roles?"
"Yes, I would."
She got her laptop and we started reading articles and other stuff on the topic. To this day we still do research together and it is one of the many things I love doing. I get to see what is inside that devious mind of hers.
We settled upon some ground rules since we were just starting out. There would be no choking or slapping around the face area, we also decided not to degrade me, even though it is something I want her to do when we're more comfortable with our roles. We decided on just using the whip and spanking technique for the time being.
Before we went to bed that night we decided to practice our roles the next day, and if I did something bad the punishment would be tame.
She had to go to work so she gave me a task to do, she asked me to put her clothes in the washer and wash them but that is all I had to do with it. I decided to see what she would do if I didn't do the task she wanted.
"Oliver!" She yelled as soon as she came home from work.
"What!" I shouted in a bratty tone.
I was practicing okay? I have never addressed her in that manner before, nor do I address in that way now.
