दूसरा बचपन

The Second Childhood - Part 4 - Ranjankumar Desai

He had opened a shop of negative thoughts working day & night around the clock for  24 hours. He was proprietor of this work shop and he had associated his sole son as a partner of it .

God is the Creator and destroyer of this universe . Nobody could dare to oppose him or go against him . You too were believer of this . Then why do you think that some thing wrong will happen ? !

Mohan Lal despite being a strong believer in God , talking illogically contradicting himself .

This attitude was transferred to Rajesh , but he was conscious about the outcome of negative thinking . He had managed to pull himself out of burning work shop . All the time he was staying home with his daughter in law and grand children . This had inflicted fear in the mind of Rajesh that his attitude will affect their life badly .

Rajesh had a feeling of security of his children due to his unwarranted and unwanted interference . He was seriously in hunt of solution to his father's thinking .

' We could stop the child with a rebuke or threat if he does not reach the level understand the the risk involve in being negative . We could slap also if need arises . But what to do with so called experienced lot .

During his school days Rajesh was  very enthusiastic and entrepreneur to learn new things . But Mohan Lal never appreciated his attempts and disrupted him .

' Do not touch this or that . It is not our cup of tea .'

Mohan Lal was the victim of inferiority complex  coupled with negative approach  . This attitude of his father invited unwarranted problems in his life . Unknowingly all his restriction imposed on his made room to disrupt his self confidence .

He never encouraged his son to act upon his own intellect.

Despite his being in the slot of retired people Mohan Lal was striving to fetch income to the family .

Rajesh never wished that his father should work at his age , but Mohan Lal was adamant in his way of working . People objected to his working at the age of 60 plus and taunting Rajesh for his careless towards his father .

' You are good for nothing , not even think of your father at his age working like a dog !! '

Mohan Lal' s nagging attitude always hurt Rajesh ' ego and self respect . His attitude was giving a cause of irritation to Rajesh at every step of his life .

He was allowing Rajesh to do some thing of his own and then blaming for doing nothing . And Rajesh had only one dialogue every time to retort his father .

' You never allowed me to do any thing , when I wanted to do . Now what is the sense in blaming me ! '

Veena , his wife occasionally visiting her mother's house . Rajesh was giving specific instructions to dine out side. But Mohan Lal never acceded his    request with a remark .

' No , I don't want me and you to fall with outside eatables . I will cook for both of us in the house .

And he continued his services as cook . Mohan Lal did not know how to cook but he had a feeling that he was the master of cook . He never liked the food prepared by his father but he was helpless in his hands . He was dictating his terms in house matters .

He had really created a hell out of his thinking and attitude .

He had opened a shop of negative thoughts working day & night around the clock for  24 hours. He was proprietor of this work shop and he had associated his sole son as a partner of it .

God is the Creator and destroyer of this universe . Nobody could dare to oppose him or go against him . You too were believer of this . Then why do you think that some thing wrong will happen ? !

Mohan Lal despite being a strong believer in God , talking illogically contradicting himself .

This attitude was transferred to Rajesh , but he was conscious about the outcome of negative thinking . He had managed to pull himself out of burning work shop . All the time he was staying home with his daughter in law and grand children . This had inflicted fear in the mind of Rajesh that his attitude will affect their life badly .

Rajesh had a feeling of security of his children due to his unwarranted and unwanted interference . He was seriously in hunt of solution to his father's thinking .

' We could stop the child with a rebuke or threat if he does not reach the level understand the the risk involve in being negative . We could slap also if need arises . But what to do with so called experienced lot .

During his school days Rajesh was  very enthusiastic and entrepreneur to learn new things . But Mohan Lal never appreciated his attempts and disrupted him .

' Do not touch this or that . It is not our cup of tea .'

Mohan Lal was the victim of inferiority complex  coupled with negative approach  . This attitude of his father invited unwarranted problems in his life . Unknowingly all his restriction imposed on his made room to disrupt his self confidence .

He never encouraged his son to act upon his own intellect.

Despite his being in the slot of retired people Mohan Lal was striving to fetch income to the family .

Rajesh never wished that his father should work at his age , but Mohan Lal was adamant in his way of working . People objected to his working at the age of 60 plus and taunting Rajesh for his careless towards his father .

' You are good for nothing , not even think of your father at his age working like a dog !! '

Mohan Lal' s nagging attitude always hurt Rajesh ' ego and self respect . His attitude was giving a cause of irritation to Rajesh at every step of his life .

He was allowing Rajesh to do some thing of his own and then blaming for doing nothing . And Rajesh had only one dialogue every time to retort his father .

' You never allowed me to do any thing , when I wanted to do . Now what is the sense in blaming me ! '

Veena , his wife occasionally visiting her mother's house . Rajesh was giving specific instructions to dine out side. But Mohan Lal never acceded his    request with a remark .

' No , I don't want me and you to fall with outside eatables . I will cook for both of us in the house .

And he continued his services as cook . Mohan Lal did not know how to cook but he had a feeling that he was the master of cook . He never liked the food prepared by his father but he was helpless in his hands . He was dictating his terms in house matters .

He had really created a hell out of his thinking and attitude .