(this chapter is about opening up and not being to closed in once in a relationship. although im still going through the process of it I will share how im going through it and I'll give advice on how to open up and to let everything out.)
Opening up is important because then the other person knows their limits and they also know that you are comfortable with them You ket them know that you trust them and that you can be yourself around them and that you are not trying to be someone you are not.
Im still in the process of opening up, but since my girlfriend and I got together I am way more open to her and I tell her more than I used to, she cant shut me up anymore and I have more of a voice now.
Before I never really wanted to talk about things and I never wanted to be silly and I was always afraid that she was going to judge me and I was always afraid to get to close, because now everytime I get to close to someone something always happens and then I end up losing them, and I was just trying to stay to myself even though I was falling hard for her.
Every month I open up to her more and more and every month I feel myself fall more in love with her and now im open to her but I still feel like I have more to work on and I feel like somethings I still need to work on, im glad that she still loves me and now that im more open we have a lot more fun together and we can be very silly and we just make eachothers lives happier and we just make eachothers days better, we tell eachother everything, somethings we may have to pry things out but in the end we just look back and laugh at the ridiculous things that we have done together and we just have the best memories.
How you could open up is, well you dont have to be open about everything in the beginning and it is best that you open up to the one you love at different time, it makes things more interesting and you learn more about eachother throughout it.
Dont forget to talk about things that are bothering you.
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Our Unforgettable Love Story.
Novela JuvenilTwo girls. In love. Fighting against the world and the judgement that comes with being a lesbian. This story is about my girlfriend and I, our daily life, struggles, just about everything we have gone through and continue to go thtough on the daily...
