I dated Chris for two years and four months. I will begin to narrate the events that lead to our break up.
Chris was a singer and he used to sing with a church group that always held concerts. Unfortunately because of my strict parents I was never able to attend those concerts to support him and I know he used to get a lot of attention from girls there but I never let it bother me.
There was a girl called Tamia who was well known for being naughty, who always attended those concerts. Tamia started to like Chris but I didn't know it, and because they always met at concerts they became friends. One day Chris told me that he had given my number to Tamia but I was very angry because I just didn't like her, I just felt like she was bad news and I even told him. Chris argued with me and told me she meant no harm but I insisted that I was uncomfortable with their friendship, he never listened.
I did reply to her messages whenever she texted me but I had no interest in talking to her whatsoever. It started getting weird when Tamia would ask me about my relationship with Chris and if we were happy together. At this point she was beginning to annoy me but I just remained friendly to her.
That year there was a church camp and we were all going to attend it. The camp was a week long and it was starting on Sunday but I only arrived on Monday. The first person I saw that I knew at that camp was Tamia and she greeted me with so much excitement. I didn't understand why she was being so friendly to me because we had never really clicked, nevertheless, I let it be.
The first day of camp was great and I spent most of it with Chris. I was really happy and I remember that night, which was Monday night he escorted me to my room. He hugged me good night and kissed me and we both went to our rooms.
When I got into bed I had a message from Chris that said something like "I really love you and I feel like we're getting closer each day". It made me really happy and I went to sleep extremely happy that night not knowing what was coming the next day.
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My Christian dating life
SpiritualThis is a narrative of my dating life up to date. I hope this will teach many people lessons through the mistakes that I made. I'm a Christian so I highlight it from a Christian perspective although it has lessons to teach everyone.