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It's hard being female
It's actually hard to be a male too
But being
Female
Is shamed

Being a young woman in a world where growing up I was told
"Cover up, only sluts and girls asking for it where those tight jeans and low cut shirts"
gave me something
to be furious for

Growing up I was told to go put on a sweater to cover up my chest if I hadn't worn a bra

Being a female
Is enraging

Being begged and shut into a car because he needed it

I ask myself if it was God who made women subordinate

If it was privileged whites I learned about in history class

If it was man who had thrived without the touch of women

Being a female
Hurts

Being made to feel guilty
even without committing a crime

Born to be guilty

Born to be used

Born to not speak

Born to listen, but not heard

Being a female
Kills me

Because it is I who still has to explain to other men why

Because it is 50 women who have to come forward after being raped

Because it is man:

A sick and twisted inclination by birth.

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