Paano?

Paano mo masasabi na gusto ka ng isang lalaki?

Paano mo masasabi na gusto ka ng isang lalaki?

 

It can be really confusing to tell if a guy likes you or not. One moment he treats you like a princess, the next moment he pretends you don't even exist. So, are there some signs that can help you know if he really is interested? Of course! Here they are!

 

Since guys are so unpredictable, there are some hints listed below. But if you don’t gree then fine. May kanya-kanya tayong mga opinyon.

 

1. Pagbabago ng kilos - Action speaks louder than voice. Girls out there, mapapansin yun na gusto kayo ng lalaki if biglang nagbago yung pakikitungo nila sa inyo. For example, dati okay lang na i-hug mo siya, pero ngayon biglang tumatanggi. Mararamdaman mo rin yun girl. A true test of finding out if he is likes you is, to lightly touch his arm while having a conversation. Pag bigla niyang hinawi yung kamay mo, wag kang magagalit. It’s a good sign. In fact, he flinched just because the smallest touch from you caused a big reaction. Some of the guys even blush when they are around the girl they like.

 

2. Mga hawak niya - Most of the time, when a guy is interested in you, he might subtly touch you by either putting his hand on your arm when he laughs or NOT moving away when his leg accidentally brushes against yours. Bigla na lang siyang yayakap sayo nang walang dahilan; the hug will make you wonder "Huh? What was that for?" Basically he wants to get close, but doesn't really know how. So he will keep finding reasons and ways in which he can make physical contact.

 

3. Gusto mo gusto niya rin - A sure sign that he likes you is when he suddenly starts showing interest in the things you like. He wants to know the music you are listening to, the places you hangout at, the movies you like to watch, the books you like to read. He wants to know your favorite color, whether you like dogs or not. Or etc. But the sweetest thing is when sometimes a guy doesn’t show his interest about your interests but behind your back, he does.

 

4. Palaging nagtitext - It sounds so creepy but it happened to my friend. One day bigla ka na lang may matatanggap na sweet text messages like “Kumain ka na ba?”, “Nakauwi ka na ba?”, “How are you?”, etc. Sometimes it makes girl afraid especially when they don’t like those guuys. Pero kung gusto ng isang girl ang guy na ganun, baka nasiraan na siya ng bait.

 

5. Pinupuri ka - Hindi lahat ng lalaki ay ganito but mostly yes. Does your crush notice when you make an extra effort to dress well? Does he/she compliment you often? It could be a very minute observation or he/she may genuinely offer praise with regards to your skills. Whatever the compliment, you can rest assured your crush is interested in you and would love to know you better.

 

6. Ma-effort- May mga lalaking super ma-effort talaga at lalong nagiging ma-effort yun when he likes a girl. Well, you need not be worried about your crush liking you if the person makes an extra effort for you. It might be a simple thing such as helping you with your homework or even walking you home. He may be really courteous with you or she may cook you something special. Whatever the outcome, an extra effort only goes to show he/she really cares about you but is unable to put it in words.

 

7. Kakaiba kung tumingin - Watch out for that look, that can betray the calm exterior of a shy guy. Remember that all-sweeping-look, as his eyes look at you from head to toes, followed by his eyes lingering on yours. However, it is probable that even if a shy guy does make eye contact, he will not be able to sustain it for long and just glance away. The looking away part is about feeling awkward about being caught in the act. It is temporary of course, as he will look at you again, when he thinks you are not looking. Well girls and boys, if your crush can't take eyes off you then you have surely got him/her hooked on to you. This is often the case when you are yet to introduce yourself and if you cannot understand whether he/she likes you or not, simply keep a check on the gaze of the person. Using various methods of knowing feelings through body language will help you to understand a person better. Constant gazing or stealing glances are a sure sign to know if your crush likes you!

8. Mapang-asar- Seriously. This is one of the moves of a boy when he likes a girl. Remember, ang taong laging nang-aasar sayo ay ang taong lihim na nautuwa tuwing nakukuha ang atensyon mo.

 

Kung may mga kilala kang guys like this, ay nakaw, alam mo na ha. But be careful. Because men are naturally flirty (hindi lahat maybe). Wag lang tayong masyadong mag-assume dahil masakit ang masaktan. Hope but don’t you dare to assume or expect to avoid disappointment. Lol.