What Exactly is Gender Fluidity?

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If you've made it this far, you likely are or think you could be genderfluid. You might be wondering exactly what being genderfluid means. It means your gender does not stay the same, it changes. This usually means changes in dysphoria and self-image. People commonly describe gender fluidity as feeling a different gender everyday, but this is not necessarily true. You can stay the same gender for weeks or months before switching. You also can switch multiple times during the day, which gets annoying and confusing. Different people can have different genders they switch between, and not just male and female. You can feel any gender while being genderfluid, and it can be hard to tell what you're feeling. Some days, you wake up and think, "I'm *gender*." Some days, its hard to tell. What I do on these days is say different genders out loud and see what feels right, or refer to myself with different pronouns until I find what fits in that moment.

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