Clingy

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Clingy (/ˈklɪŋ.i/)

adjective
1. A person or fabric that stays near or hangs on.
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Bagi aku, clingy ni ada 2 jenis. It's either the clinginess yang buatkan hang jadi "aww" atau buat hang jadi "urghh" aka cringe with the person.
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Is it bad being clingy? Well, aku rasa tak. As long as your partner boleh adapt dengan perangai hang (and/or) level clingy hang tu tak melampau. Or else, clingy can turn into cringe real quick tbh.
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Certain orang tak suka dengan manusia jenis clingy ni..lagi-lagi dalam relationship. Maybe sebab orang yang clingy or needy ni nampak macam budak-budak atau manusia yang depa jumpak tu adalah dari species cringe.
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Ew.
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Aku rasa la, being clingy is good sometimes though. Sebab..knowing that how your partner cares about you a lot, afraid of losing you or the way they want to attach with you is actually sweet. Well at least kita tahu yang dia memang betul-betul sayang kita am I right?
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Tapi macam yang aku cakap (atau tulis), it is good "sometimes". Not all the time. Sebab, benda paling penting untuk kekalkan satu hubungan tu adalah faham satu sama lain. Masing-masing ada life masing-masing. And bila both side understand each other dan boleh adapt dengan perangai masing-masing, then congrats! You're meeting the right one ^-^

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