1. IS DATING BIBLICAL.
Actually this question has been going on in so many individuals minds especially the younger generation, whether dating is biblical but the truth is dating is not biblical right from Genesis to revelation. Dating is not biblical but engagement is biblical, you can see that in the book of Exodus chapter 22 verse 16. However it actually emphasis on betrothed ship which actually in this present generation is called engagement which means been engage or betrothed is like booking a flight and your seat number has been given to you.
To be engage or betrothed is an assurance for marriage but so many people have downplay with this.
2.WHAT ARE THE EFFECT FOR DATING.
Dating has no bad effect when you put God in it, because there is a dating which God is not in it and a dating which God is in it. The simple truth is according to God, he said in the bible in 1 Corinthians chapter 10 verse 31 he said whatsoever you do, whether you eat or drink or whatsoever, Do to the glory of God. This message was from Christ disciple.
So the fact is, if you want your dating acceptable to God , then you need to do it in a way it will glorify God, do not engage in sexual immorality also anything that does not glorify God then there will be effect for it.
Persons who take dating as their major prime in life and act immoral in it, lost their stimulus for their success journey in life, because they become more engage with the little pleasure immorality gives. I know it is not easy to fight against sexual immorality, especially with the opposite gender, but understand it, you can fight it because is inbuilt but you can control it and since you can fight it, it is not easy also to stay without doing it, especially when you follow a peer group that take that as hobby or in this societal tendency which everything has been characteristics with benefit. So the fact is what is the solution?, I will tell you something, I do not know because, if I say get married the fact is many married people sometimes still induce in such careless habit of sexual immorality, but I have some alternatives answers, just decide not to be part of such act, remember the power of the mind, because you practice sexual immorality in dating because you think about it in your mind. Just try stop thinking of it.
Strategy 1: stop watching movies, porn's, nude photos because those things build a metal picture in you and whenever you remember them, the urge for having sex begins to vibrate on and in your body also [you and your partner must agree not to have sex, this applied to those in dating relationship] or even try to induce in any romance, because most people can control their passion during romance, but that do not mean you should induced in romance.
Strategy 2. If the thought pop up in your mind, go take a full glass cup of water, if it still persist, take another cup of water, if it still persist continue taking water until you become weak.
Strategy 3. Whenever the urge for sex cream into your mind, view it as something irritating in a manner that it will disgust you.
Strategy 4. If it persist, you are advice to leave that place or surrounding for a while.
Strategy 5. Also pray to God that the urge is remove from you and also talk against sex in your mind, when the urge comes up, try to view another picture or a story about something else but not about sex.
Listen if you practice this five sex resistance, the fact is a continues practice of this five will make you not to have sexual urge towards anyone except the one you are married to and for the daters this five resistance will make you not to have urge for sex.
3.IS SEX A PROVE OF LOVE.
Yes, yes, yes, sex is a prove of love, that why is required in marriage because out of love child bearing come forth. The fact is if you love someone or thing you will want the person or thing to enjoy something unique about you. But sex in dating when not married to the person, am sorry to say this, it is a show of foolishness, because when you are dating someone that does not mean the person practically love you, even if he or she says it hundred times. It is not love, it is like accompany with lust with passion. That why you see when they see you for the first time, they will tell you things as if they will give you the world that only simply shows that they are in want for something.
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