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"Paano ba mag move-on?"
That's the question of a cheatee, broken hearted, dumpee, or whosoever na nasaktan. But this question should be a what and not a how. There is no fucking way to move-on.
It should be, Ano ba dapat ang i-move on? The feelings? Or the memories?
If you'd choose the memories, forgiveness is next to that. If you were the cheatee and you chose to forget the memories, the painful ones, those that fucked you up, memories that made you cry all night, and the causes why you are in pain, if you really want to move forward, forgive that cheater. It will be damn hard. But the fact that you chose to forget what he has done means that you chose your love for him over the pain that he caused you.
But miss, if ever that dude do that again, leave him. Don't be a masochist. Leave that douche. The fact that he cheated on you proves how jerk he is. Forgiving him once is enough. Everyone deserves second chances. But forgiving him twice is stupidity. He cheated again. It wasn't a mistake, it was his choice. Forgiving him thrice? Get a life woman. You're better than that. Don't be stupid anymore.
And if you were the cheatee and you'd choose to move on with your feelings, one word, acceptance.
Accept the fact that you two are over. Accept the truth that he hurt you.
If you'd forget your feelings for that cheater make sure that you would never forget what he has done. It is self-inflicted pain, but it will make you stronger. A better version of you. After all, experience is the best teacher. Learn from it.
Don't cage yourself to the thought that it will happen again. That someone will pain and destroy you for the second time. Yes there's a chance that it might happen again but don't be afraid. Be brave. Love again. Fall in love. Still, love's the most precious thing in the world. Love is a healing pill.
Treasure and love what is, move on of what was, and have trust and faith in what will be.
