it's okay

chapter:03 FOR THOSE WHO ENDURE

Growing every single day and enduring things that make you hurt. YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH. I hope maturity makes you strong. Strong about enduring things. About understanding the things and acceptance of life goings. No matter you don't want to be what you are but believe me you are enough and you need not to explain this to anyone.
I hope you want to do the things you do before but maybe now you are matured and you miss all those days and nights. Why maturity is so bad? Why it all the reminds us not to do this and do that? Why it reminds us to be careful? And why it wants us to perfect? Well no one is perfect, we are learners. We learn things every day whether we are young or old. I hope that you think you are not perfect because no one is perfect. Just relax and think again, you are not perfect. You may do mistakes that are maybe minor but still they are mistakes. Perhaps you are afraid of being not called careless and maybe you are. I know try to be perfect but what makes you imperfect? And when you are used to being imperfect some of you feel proud of being PERFECTLY IMPERFECT. Why are so proud of that? Please accept things around you. Accept this that you are imperfect and atleast you could try to be perfect. Why every single time you lose your hopes? Your hopes are worthy to someone. You don't need to explain. The thing is you should have believe in this. You can save many lives. The thing is stop believing in people you should believe in your God. You shouldn't have hopes from people, you should have your hopes from your God.
Every single day, enduring the harsh words people say. And then you are used to those words but you know what! The worst thing is that you become harsh and say same harsh words to someone else even knowing this that once those words had hurt you and now you say them to others. You know this how badly those words hurts but one thing to remember is that these words break a person from within and destroy a person's heart from within, how can you break someone's heart. Even though you know how painful it all would be. You shouldn't say any wrong word to anyone. You shouldn't talk bad about someone's character. Who are you to judge someone and for example if you know someone than are you that sure that you are right. Maybe you are wrong and discussing someone or saying bad to someone about someone ,that actually tells about your character, this totally is unfair. If someone is bad why are you telling this to someone that this guy is bad and Making an image in others mind that this guys is bad and do you have an idea of how much you fall when you look down on others.
I know when you are being hurt from the person you love the most how does that feel but believe me you should give space to one. Maybe that guy don't talk to you more because one is forced to do that. Maybe one don't thought the way you thought. Maybe you are just a friend to other. WHY YOU ALWAYS WANT OTHERS TO THINK THE WAY YOU DO? PEOPLE also had a life they also live for someone like the way you live for someone. Where SUPPOSED to be told this that you should love that guy? Of course not! You could never do this. This is your life and that is one's life. Love is never being booked before it's an incident. Love is never wasted it is always useful in some manner.
I know how you feel when you'd lost your loved ones and you can't live without them. You love them so much that you think that life is incomplete without them and can't live anymore. You think everything has been ended here but dear! Maybe you need a break you need to calm down and take deep breaths. Life goes on and you have to accept this whether today or tomorrow and the worst thing is you'll see this, you'll see yourself moving on. So PLEASE LEARN TO MOVE ON, LEARN TO STAND AND HAVE CONTROL. People will never understand that what have you gone through, they always want you to be normal in front of them and you have to THAT.
All you have to do is do it for yourself and you don't need anyone's help for that.