when the alpha meets the sigma.. Sigma males prefer stable, lasting and trustful relationships instead of hookups. If you're dating one, in all likelihood, he told you that he's looking for something serious. So if you really want to make a sigma male fall in love with you, take this seriously because he's not joking around An alpha female is a confident, emotionally independent woman, who has a strong life purpose and doesn't need anyone else to "complete" her. At the same time, when it comes to romantic relationships and dating, she is soft, warm, supportive, and feminine. how would they handle the reality.. how would they learned that the reality is within... THEM!