Every person in the world are attention seekers in their own way. Even if you're the most introverted person in the world you still have that need of attention, the need to be recognized, that need of acknowledgement. She is social and he is antisocial. She likes all pretty stuffs and he likes his books. She wants all the glory while he is just lowkey. You might see this commonly but here's the catch. . . She was a secret narcissist and he was her gaslight.