Words of life

Ohh,dear.  
Life.

Life, can be pretty difficult sometimes.
And life could be pretty amazing other times.

But that's the whole thing about life.
How would you know if you are happy,sad,angry,confused, stressed, hopeless
and all the above,
If you never experienced any of it in this life?

You have to experience some sort of a downfall.
Or what do you say?
Some call it disappointment
Some call it a fail in life.

What ever you might call it.
For me Its called nothing.
Because I know a "fail" or a "disappointment"
is.. well nothing.

Therefore its just a sign for me to change.
To change for the better.
A chance for a change for a better outcome.
A tongue twister there.

If I "fail" in something that means I just have to try again, and again and again.
No matter how many times it requires for me to make it happen.

I will try again.

You wouldn't do anything in life if you knew you couldn't change anything.
Right?

If you are sad, you wouldn't even have the thought about being happy.
Because that's nothing you could have, if that was the case.

But now we can be anything we want.
Everything is possible.
Everything is accessible to you.
You just have to want it enough to make it in your life.

If you are in a rut.
You can change that.
Do some small chores around your room so you feel productive.
And maybe another day do some errands so you get in a routine.

If you want a 4.0 gpa but you have a lower one.
You can change that.
Study smart and not hard.
And make that 4.0 gpa happen.

If you have a goal in mind, but you don't believe you will have it.
You have to change.
Change your mindset.

And It may take some time, dear.
It could take weeks, months and even years.
But it can happen.

If you work with your goal little by little every single day and you put effort - all your focus on the project and have the right intention towards it.

I don't know why it wouldn't happen.
You got the whole recipe.

Some people have experience a not so good life for about half their life with no happiness in it since the day they were born.
But after all of those year.
Something changed.

They became happier and they felt more content with life.
And it was the change they choose.
They wouldn't want anyone to have that life they had.
So why living it yourself?

And some people ask;
What is the meaning of life?
Why do I have to feel all of the bad emotions to be able to feel the good ones?

Well..dear.
Nobody has that answer really.
But I would say;
the meaning of life is to come up with a meaning yourself.

I know sometimes it's hard to change things at perhaps at your school, the people you have to work with, deadlines, schedules and so on and so forth.

But you can always change you as a person.
And that includes your emotions too.
So come up with a meaning about what's meaning-full to you in this life.

And maybe you'll have your question answered.

- A.M🍷