A COMPLETE GUIDE TO GETTING A GUY

PREPARATIONS FOR THE BATTLE

I'd just like to say,

Men are visual creatures.

They make use of these senses in order for them to achieve attraction.

That is,

His eyes :

• (You have to look good in order to trigger his attention and attraction.)

His nose:

• (Smelling good is a given (take it up a notch by having a distinctive and personal scent.)

His mind :

(Mental attraction is actually a thing, having mental substance is always a plus that will make you even more attractive.)

Now to explain further:-

The first step to any guy noticing you is visual attraction and yes that has to do with his eyes.

Even though people say looks aren't everything, yes, there aren't everything but they are definitely something.

Before any guy can have access to you mind or even get to know you, the first thing that connects you to him is his eyes, when he really looks at you or even if it's just a glance.

That's why it's very important to never be caught lacking, the time to be relaxed with your looks is definitely not when you are still in the process of getting the guy.

Now it's important to note that I don't mean overdress, there is a clear difference between over doing it and just doing it just enough.

The word is 'looking good'

- Look presentable in nice clothes that fit the occasion : (Whether it's school, wedding event, a causal hangout or even something more serious.)

- Get your hair done : ( If you are putting the effort, make the effort to look your best from head to toes.)

- Get your nails done 'Hands & Feet: ( Doesn't have to be expensive nails, maybe just white polish or even no polish and just clean, cut looking nails.)

The aim is too look at presentable as possible so when he sees you he really sees you even if it's just a glance, whenever he takes glances, let it be a blessing to his eyes.

Now :

Smelling good is also a given, one of the best compliments a person can get is that they smell good, it's compliments your looks and gives you that extra confidence.

You can take it a step further by having a particular scent so anytime he passes by you, he knows it's you.

When you smell nice, it just generally encourages people to want to be around you more.

Now :

Mental attraction is actually a thing.

I mean I'm not saying be the smartest person in the room, I'm just saying don't be the dumbest person in the room.

Be confident in yourself, opinions, perceptions, way of thinking.

The conversation should flow and if you bond on a topic you both have knowledge on, don't be shy to express yourself and keep the conversation following.

Note that he should do more of the talking as people generally like someone that listens but the catch is do it in a way where he doesn't notice, maybe ask him questions while you talk to get his opinions and more information on the way he thinks and what he likes.

After all talking is a great way to gather information on your target to win the war.

The first few conversations should be soft spoken, more of listening, asking him more questions with calmness and a hint of gentle.

This is a soft approach after all.