A COMPLETE GUIDE TO GETTING A GUY

THE SAVIOUR COMPLEX

This is a very crucial aspect to the whole dynamic of men.

Did you know that you have a very powerful play when it comes to getting a guy?

It's the like the secret code to the masculine gender.

They have this thing, deeply imbedded in them, it is called 'The savior complex.'

Knowing how to harness this knowledge is really the difference between you and the girl that gets the guy.

As this is a soft girl guide, I'll speak plainly because they are many debates on either to be or not to be and I am all for the independent woman but knowledge is power and knowing how to use your feminine powers is power on its own.

The savior complex is the natural instinct of a man to save the heroine, like in the movies, the woman is portrayed as someone to be saved.

Hidden inside every man is that instinct and if you want to get the guy you have to trigger this instinct, why?

Well because a man likes to feel like a man and if you make a man feel like a man then you naturally make him want to be your man.

Now, how do you trigger the savior, it's simply by "Stroking his ego"

Men like to be glorified as an actual man.

The move is to basically just ask him to do something for you, then be so grateful after.

One of the way I trigger the savior complex in a man is by asking him to explain something I supposedly did not understand in class that I know he knows really well or asking him to help me carry something that's supposedly too heavy for me.

Then after I always say "Thank you, you really helped me out." Or "You're really smart, i actually understand it now thanks to you."

Saying "Thank you." is like a reward and he'll feel really good after.

Anything to make him feel on top of the world, stroking his ego.

The reason why this is such a manipulative move is because you would literally get him to do anything and ultimately get him addicted to your praises.

The thing is don't overly praise him and don't overly ask him to do so much for you, there is a balance.

Just ask sometimes with enough time passed in between and don't use overly exaggerated compliments.

Remember not to seem too dumb or too weak, just enough where he starts picturing like a girl he wants to protect that can still save herself.

The thing is I can really only give you the general idea, you have to look for instances where you can put the savior complex into practice but know that if it's done successfully that man would not want to let you down.

• STEPS IN TRIGGERING THE SAVIOR COMPLEX

• Picture the softest you possible.
• Bring out your inner girly girl.
• Smile a lot
• Ask him for favors especially the ones you know he can do really well.
• Compliment him especially when he helps you out with something.
• Always say thank you.

Remember that the point to the savior complex is stroking his ego and making him feel like a man.

You have all the control and when he acts up, you have the power to take that praise and feeling from him.

Trust me watching you do all the things you would normally ask him to do for you will drive him absolutely crazy.

You won't even have to say you're upset with him, he'll know.

Women are strong and they always have been but women are also soft and feminine. You can be independent but you don't always have to be, there is a balance.

When a guy you like cultivates the habit of protecting you, you'll honestly have a happier time with him compared to when you want to be man in the relationship.

I always say that the person playing the game right wins the whole war, trust me.