I Found You

.Confessions.

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Hey loves, I just want to thank all my supporters I have who been there since day one for IFY. When I first had the idea for this book, I didn't think it would get that far. I am a plus size girl myself and I'm not ashamed of it. Im sixteen years old and personally I haven't been the victim of bullying, but I've witnessed it on numerous occasions. Don't let anyone tear you down and belittle you. Don't think that your not good enough or "thin" enough. Everyone is beautiful in there own way and that's something I want girls these days to remember. We are all beautiful no matter what race, religion, or SIZE.

Being plus sized and being healthy are two different things. It's okay to be comfortable in the skin your in as long as your healthy while doing it. So many people complement me saying "you carry yourself well to be a big girl." But they have it mistaken. I carry myself well because that's who I am and that's how I was raised. Even if I was a size two I would still dress the same and act the same. I was taught to have confidence and believe in myself because if people see you down and can see that you don't like who you are then it's easy for them to take advantage of you. You have to respect yourself before others can respect you. If you want to wear that crop top then wear it, but make sure that it complements your body and not give people a reason to get popped for saying slick shit. If you have thighs and want to wear them short shorts them wear them, just make sure your wearing them because your comfortable in them and not because it's what everyone else is wearing or to get hundreds of boy's attention. There are lots of men who like plus sized. You just have to have patience and it will come in due time. You will find love! It doesn't matter how you look. Some women think that they have to prove things because they are pulse sized. They want to prove that they can wear the same things and do the same things. You don't have to prove anything in my opinion. All you have to do is be yourself and you won't have to prove a damn thing. Love, cherish, and respect yourself and your body because if you don't then no one else will ladies. These are qualities that I have within myself and I just want more girls in my society to do the same. Its okay. Its okay to be different and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I just wanted to say this to you guys. I know it might not apply to everyone reading this but I know there's someone out there who is going to relate to something I said. If anyone wants to share their story or need anyone to talk to feel free to inbox me and I'm all ears.

Once again thank you to my supporters and voters and also my people who comment every chapter. Even though I might not reply doesn't mean your comment was bad or anything like that. There will be a update real soon and be on the lookout. Love you guys.