Advice Column :)

Advice Column *Part 3*

Username Unknown (For private reasons): Today especially, the people mocked me in science class :/ I tried to ignore them. The girl... Well, I dont know. Sometimes it seems fine, others not. I was on the same basketball team as her today and later heard her ranting... How do I know if someone is talking about me behind my back?

Advice: You can tell if someone is talking behind your back when you talk to them later on and something just feels off, but try confronting them or asking them if they did.

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Username: @Anna_Regina

Now, someone's accusing me of acting "fake", and he's not the type of person who listens to me... Also, what if they lie? Something just always feels off. I mean, other people have been bullied way more than me, so why is this affecting me this much? I don't think confronting them will do anything... They'll think I'm lying...:/

Advice: It's tough to say this, but you just have to ignore it. You can't tell a teacher, they won't do anything. Telling the principle will make things worse. As much as I hate saying just ignore it, it's what has to be done. Hopefully you go to a big school so it'll be easy to ignore them, but you should just ignore them and not care what other people think about you.

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Username Unknown (For private reasons): I've never told anyone and it's really weird posting this, but I hate myself. So much. I think it's because I'm not like the other girls, not that girly or perfect or something. Or it's because I did mistakes, or my family. Prejudices and things like things like that.

Advice: You don't have to be like other girls, nobody is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. Most of the girls I know aren't that girly at all, yeah they wear girly clothes, but they act like they are boys haha. But really though, everyone makes mistakes, but it's not too late to turn things around into a positive note. It's okay you make mistakes, but you can always change it and become an even better person. Don't hate yourself. Life is too short to hate yourself :)

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Username Unknown (For private reasons): What do you do when the person who abuses you is the person you need the most? What do you do when the person you love the most could never love you back because they believe the lies they hear about you? What do you do when you starve yourself to be pretty because you'll never forget the day he called you "FAT?"

Advice: If he called you FAT then he doesn't deserve you. Don't let anyone get you down. If they believe the lies about you then he really doesn't deserve you. You deserve someone that will call you beautiful and no fat. Trust me, you'll fall in love with a guy that will treat you right and until that happens don't let anyone or whoever this idiot guy is make you feel any worse. And if you are getting abused tell someone now. Trust me you'll happier you did.

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Username Unknown (For private reasons): How do you get someone who is bullying people on this site banned?