Advice Column *Part 9* Rambling Thoughts/Advice

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This is just my rambling thoughts on things/advice for the general audience reading this :) Enjoy :)

Here are my rambling thoughts;

If you want to go out, grab a couple of friends that you know you can deal with for more than three hours and take a car and just drive going on some mini adventure you should totally go for it. Don't miss opportunities just because you may not have enough money or because you don't have a plane ticket to somewhere cool. Just take what you have and go on an adventure. Adventures with friends even family can lead to unforgettable memories. So, don't just not go on mini adventures or travel because of money. Just walk and walk and let the adventure take you.

You're skinny? That's great. You're over-weight? That's great. You're in-between both of those? That's great. People need to stop shaming others for their body. Telling someone they are skinny isn't a compliment and neither is calling someone over-weight. Skinny people are insecure too, so think before you say something or complain that a skinny person is complaining about their weight because it's different for people. Same goes for over-weight people. They could be so confident in themselves and if you insult them it could make them insecure. It shouldn't matter what people's bodies look like. Just keep those thoughts to yourself because you don't know what the other is going through weight wise.

Don't bully people. I don't care if you think it's funny, I don't care if you claim to have a "good" reason for it, don't do it. You could make someone do something very stupid and hurtful. Would you want to hurt someone that far? No, so just don't do it. Bullying isn't funny, smart, or kind. It's something bad that could drive people to be depressed and sad. I understand people have strong feelings toward someone in a negative way, but keep that to yourself because you don't know what the other person is going through. Until you walk in their shoes, live their life and see how people act toward them don't be a bully. Don't harass anyone or put them down. We should be bringing people up not down.

Stop thinking you know someone so well. You might think they are the same person they were last year at school, but you're probably wrong. They could be the coolest person ever, but you judge them for something that happened a long time ago unless it was a serious situation and they made you quiet upset. Other than that you can't keep thinking they are the same person because they will never want to show you the real them if you keep thinking they are the same person a long time ago.

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