Journeys with my Gun

(58) MISERY

Photo - Geelong Victoria for our Son Stephen's wedding with the photo clearly showing our contempt for the bride and her family for cutting us out of wedding arrangements, which was by the way, only the forerunner of worse to come from the family 'Capon'
                     
I cannot apologise for these paragraphs as my life story would not be complete without the telling of the episodes of misery which struck us firstly as a result of a spoilt and jealous 'Daughter in law' (Lisa) who held her peace whilst our son was alive, then behaved badly amongst the misery of the loss of our youngest Son, Stephen at age 41.
These episodes are part of my life albeit sad, tragic, disappointing and painful however, the telling of it must form part of my life story...

The bent behaviour of that creature flared yet again on the very day Stephen passed away..
Quote - 'Alan and Rhonda will blame me for his death'
Stephen passed away, hundreds of km's away from home and being afraid from her ridiculous claim she sent her parents to inform us Stephen's passing.

I won't dwell on her sick behaviour however, this is one perfect mongrel.
Then there was Stephen's funeral however, if things weren't bad enough... we received no welcome in what was a dreadfully emotional event which I could not control.
Our lives and family were then torn to shreds and our future sadly framed forever.

Then Rhonda, whilst unwell endured more of the worst behaviours from that vile woman. We departed Adelaide very promptly to escape the torment.. it was a very good idea.

Then sadly Rhonda passed away before her time without her family beside her and now, kids and grandkids are held to ransom by that creature who is one of those sick women, jealous that Stephen may have loved his mother more than her.
After addressing the problem separately with the teenage grandsons whom unfortunately failed to respond, were then advised that they should not darken my doorstep ever again.
Farewell, first Son, his mongrel wife, her bastard parents, two grandkids (plus now includes at least two unseen great grandchildren.
No more of that.

The Govt Health Dept in Action ( inaction)
As well, on another note of grief prior to Rhonda's passing was an inexcusable absence of health care for her when she clearly needed it badly.
I remain disgusted at the total lack of professionalism and care by the health department in relation to the bullshit they handed out when Rhonda was a top candidate for health care in the form of a 'health package'  which we didn't realise at the time was never there.

The Cover up..
It was a huge relief when three health personnel turned up at our home in the Hunter Valley armed with their pens, clipboards and brochures to assess Rhonda's needs.
All was perfectly clear in regards to her required assistance, a level 4 health package which would have alleviated her pain and discomfort if not prevented her eventual passing.

Rhonda's Condition at assessment..
Rhonda's condition which was totally ignored (copied from her doctors report ) included, severe COPD, breathlessness, diabetes type 2, hypertension, STML, high cholesterol, osteopenia, autosomal dominant familial spastic paraplegia, atypical mycobacteria infection, PVD, spinal stenosis, urine incontience, pseudomonas infection, BPPV, phx fractures, bilateral corrective foot surgery ( unresolved) arthritis and constant degrees of pain due to muscle tightening from ADFS - Not to mention her mental trauma and exhaustion.

😡'1922' raises its ugly head..
Earlier, doctors refused to approve oxygen even though Rhonda was at times gasping for breath !
The so called 'specialists' said that Rhonda didn't require it based on a government formula developed in 1922 !
( this refusal occurred on the day, immediately after Rhonda failed a breathing test (at the facility, a test which she couldn't even start ! )
The 1922 test was so restricted as to ensure that few if any would ever be approved for government supplied oxygen.
Against her doctors advice we purchased a rechargeable portable oxygen generator which she carried with her wherever she went. She clearly relied on it day and night, day in and day out .
Anyway, Rhonda was approved for the care package as a result of the home visit - fantastic !!
However, as the investigative group slunk out of our house like rats they failed to inform us that - there was 120,000 people on the waiting list
which was kept quiet from the public.