A Queer Person And Their Struggles

4- Gender and Sexuality

I was recently asked what my gender and sexuality are by a family member. It was awkward because I wasn't out yet. (Still aren't.)

I'm gay, I've known since I was 8 or 9 years old. I'm Genderfluid, I've known this since I was 11 or 12. Asexual, known since I was like 10. Demiromantic, known since 12.

As you can see, there are alot of things I identify as. And really, there are probably more.. but I didn't tell my family member this because I'm not ready too. So I simply said, "I'm still very undecided."

Great way to avoid conflict right there kids. Use it if a family member asks if your gay or not. And if they're homophobic, say you a perfect little girl/boy and cut them out of your life as soon as possible. Or if your brave (unlike me) tell this homophobe that you're queer and then walk away like the bad*ss you are.

I love you alot so have a lovely day/night and I hope you'll be here for the next chapter!