Being a girl is lifting all weights on our shoulder. I have talked about a lot of things , my struggle, what I have to go through n all. Now I wanna talk about how can I and you we all can cope up these things.
We don't really have to live the way others want us to live. If it's between you and your mom the best advice is don't fire back , it's your mom , she is a woman too, she too has hopes or had hopes. She may have raised you putting all her desires aside. At times she can be wrong , so you can correct her when the situation calms down. If she isn't understanding , make your point after the heated argument melts. You can not win over your mom. And you shouldn't make your point just by shouting at her bcz that will make her feel miserable and nothing will change in society's perspective.
If it's between you and other people whom we don't even know , shout, make your point, tell them that they are wrong, their mentality is wrong. And if nothing works then just ignore. Lots of dogs bark when we step out of our house so do we , really have to pay any heed to them??
My main point is only that if the problem is within family , there's no point in shouting as it will make every situation worse. When you become independent then just live the way you want.
I am not saying to live how they want , no, just there's no use of arguing, do what makes you feel happy, find some hobby, find something you can indulge yourself busy with, that helps a lot!!
If the problem is in the society fight until you feel there's no way they can listen. Or just ignore them.
Being a middle child and an introvert we can't really do much . Our mental health is necessary so do what makes you feel at ease. And we(introverts) are not quiet we just choose to be free with people who really care about us and make us feel at peace!!
Hoping you all will win the desired fight whatever you are fighting for.
Have a great day!!
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