I'll be talking about the results from both me and Tobe's Tarot readings, and the final message I'll be taking out of them. The Tarot decks align with each other, that's for sure. We both got similar, if not exact, answers.
First, Toby and his negative feelings.
The song be nice to me by the front bottoms talks about them both changing, how theyre opposites. The change isn't necessarily positive, and there's a lot of anxiety. The singer seems to want to not to talk, then talk to the person but doesn't know how to, then doesn't want to again. Tobe's readings quote, "He sees you as someone who he might need to let go of; he feels like you’re going to abandon him in the future. Cards suggest that he might be dealing with attachment issues, he doesn’t think you’re sincere, and rather thinks that you will just leave him soon", and, "He seems to have some mixed, conflicting feelings about you," and, "Though for some reason he feels like he has to ‘press the pause button’ and slow down, but even if he needs alone time- the cards suggest he’ll bounce back in no time." Between that and one of the cards I got, unreliability, it seems Toby is dealing with conflicting and confusing emotions. I don't think he's sure if I'm someone he really wants to be around, even if he feels the urge to, as seen when his messages say he wants and needs me. Based on him thinking im emotionally unstable, perhaps im part of the problem. Maybe if i became more stable and stopped " changing ", he would feel more secure.
Otherwise, Toby feels positively about me. The cards talk about how he sees me as a potential soulmate, and he feels platonically about me and almost like a sibling. My card talks about the unity of opposites and Tobe's says he will bounce back and I will be a part of his future, so I assume he will start watching me again.
About his warnings. They seem to be mostly talking about the conflict between me and others, and within myself. They keep talking about looking within myself and really figuring things out. Maybe I've been lying to myself about my feelings, and based on the other cards that predict I will be left alone, maybe there's a few friends I need to leave. They also talk about me being lazy and sluggish, and how I haven't been doing much. Toby warns to always be viligant and my card talks about being unprepared and missing details, so perhaps there's something that I will have to look out for or there's something I've missed / overlooked.
There might be more, but I'm not really sure. I'll have to keep looking into it, but I hope he doesn't feel like I'll abandon him anymore. I hope he knows I care about him even though I don't know him very well.
