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Everybody has a History

All of us had our own history some are good and some are bad but we can't control everything. All we want is to experience happy and good memories only but actually we can't. In every aspects there's always a bad thing there's always an unexpected happenings that need to happened or maybe it's destined to happen. But most people focus on the bad things like if how they control it, how to escape, how to carry those things on their own to the point that you ruined your day just because of a bad thing happened to you that time. There's nothing wrong about fixing your own problem but focusing on the problem is wrong in a way that you even talkshit to yourself, underestimate yourself, and not believing yourself to what you're capable of doing.

There's a saying; If it is destined to happen, it will happen no matter what. Whatever or whoever it takes actually we can't control what to happens to us everyday but we can control our Actions, our Emotions just focus on the positive side. I know it's easy to say rather than done but if you try once you will used to it to be calm, to be attentive all the time, to focus, to be mindful in every situation and mostly be sensitive enough to what we say about ourselves maybe sometimes you joking around yourself but sooner or later you'll realized that maybe you are that kind of person eventhough it's not because words are so POWERFUL. Don't make it hard for yourself, be kind and respect yourself the way you respect other people. Appreciate the smallest and biggest achievements that you received thank to Him ⬆️  and tap your shoulder and remind yourself  "GOOD JOB SELF, YOU DID A GREAT JOB AGAIN."

Pamper yourself, treat yourself, and give yourself a chance to discover new things, new places, new people and try new adventures.

Tanda ko noon kapag ka masama ang loob ko sa isang tao kaibigan ko man or ka workmate lalo na kapag ka nag kamalditahan kami isip malala ang ante. Tutulog at gigising sa umaga yun na ang bungad sa isip ko. Wala pang nagagawa stress na agad. Hahahaha. 😅 Pero ang natutunan ko sa dami ng tao kong nakasalamuha matanda man, kasing edad ko or bata darating at dadating talaga ang panahon na kusang mag aadjust ang ugali mo hindi dahil sa takot ka kundi dahil yun ang kailangan PAKIKISAMA. Dun humaba ang pasensya ko, naging bestfriend ko ang sarili ko masarap din maging Nonchalant pag may time hahaha. Lalo na pag nasa workplace ako kasi sa panahon ngayon wala ng mapag kakatiwalaan kasi ultimong kaibigan mo tatablahin ka na parang wala kayong pinag samahan. Dun ako mas naging matatag para baliwalain ang mga naririnig ko sa iba hindi man about sakin pero alam ko na dadating ang panahon na isa na din ako sa magiging topic nila. Kasi ganun ang mga walang magawa sa buhay puna doon, puna rito, mali yun, mali to. Ang patakaran ko sa sarili ko since 2024 na at malapit ng mag palit ng taon yung mga taong tinuring kong kaibigan na tinalo ako, dalawang mukha kapag ka kaharap ako or kung ano man negats na sakin. Distansya lang, hindi na katulad ng dati, wala ng long conversations, wala ng open open ng mga problema kasi natuto na ako na kung nagawa mo sakin once you never think twice to do it again and again. May kasabihan nga ang mga matatanda "Ihiwalay ang mga kamatis na nabubulok sa mga hindi nabubulok at baka mahawa" at ayokong maging katulad nila. Just make your circle small but atleast totoo.

Masarap gumising sa umaga na wala kang iniisip na kahit na ano, meron kang maayos na trabaho, maayos na pamilya, supportive na jowa at hindi ka man active sa mga activities sa church pero active ka naman pag dating sa pag samba. Yes po I'm INC and I'm proud of it.

- Choose your battles don't waste your energy to the very unnecessary things or situations. Just keep your head down and God will make a move for yaah! 👊