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Friendships: Small but True

Friends is everywhere that's true. We can make friends at schools, at the park, at the party, at the workplace but the real question is HOW TO FIND TRUE FRIENDS. 👯

How can we say that this girl/boy would be my Best Friend Forever. Maybe because we saw each other everyday and hanging out together, or bond like a sisters or brothers or maybe you have the same favorite foods?

Those qualities are the most common Friendship things like having same favorite foods, same favorite places so on and so forth but the truth is having a real best friend is the one who defending you in a very hard situation that he/she knows that you're not like that kind of a person or in a way that he/she is not leaving you in your darkest and lowest moment of your life and treating you like a real family not like a stranger or a common friend and they're really know you even you can't speak up because real friends talk with their eyes and mind not with their mouth.

Real Friendship is not always about how many days in a week you had a bonding and talking to each other but it's all about Trust, being mindful in every aspects, situation and being understanding for the both phase of your life.

There's a saying: No man is an Island and I believed that if you see youself you could fight alone in this cruel world maybe you can convince your mind but not your heart and your soul because sooner or later you need someone who understands you in every side of your life.

Not telling to your best friend all your secrets is ok because everyone of us need privacy. Know what to share and who you share with because these days the word trust is not a big deal anymore. Just learn how to protect youself also because real friend is not always around us.

Bestfriends for me is like having not just a friend but a soul sister, a mother because having a Real Friend is have the guts saying those bad and mean doings that you did to others in front of you not behind your back. Real friend won't tolerating you doing something dumb, bullying others just to make fun of because they are the one who can speak up how to be a good person, a good friend not only for the both of you but also to others. Best friends is dreaming not only for his/hers future but for you too. Having the same vibes, same energy, same perspective in life, Goal and Family Oriented well I could say that you really found your BFF! If you already saw your real friend well that's really great you deserved to be happy.

Treasure all the people who appreciates you wether it is big or small achievements. Time will come someone will clap for what you achieved and say THAT'S MY BEST FRIEND!