What I Know Now

CHOICES

Whether they are made today, tomorrow or even made yesterday, procrastinated, put on hold, wrong or right. Either way, they have to be made. At times we hate to be caught in the middle of choosing which one to make. Unfortunately. The inevitability of making them has to be faced. Even from the moment you wake up you have to make a choice. A choice of whether to continue your sleep with dreams or to wake up to chase your dreams. A choice of starting your day with positive thoughts or nagative thoughts. Waking up feeling optimistic about the day thats yet to start or waking up feeling pessimistic. Whatever your choice might be it will definitely reflect on tomorrow.

Well this past month I have been faced with a few choices and I've been putting them on-hold. I had to choose whether to feel sorry for myself while being stuck at home sick or to enjoy relaxing and to take care of myself. Whether to keep on dating someone whoe doesn't even have time for me and who doesn't even care as half as much I do about him or to let him go. Whether to keep on working at a place where I am treated unfairly and with disrespect or to work at another place where I 'll be happy knowing that I won't be working with the same children I've grown to love and it will break my heart. Whether to let an opportunity of taking in part in an audition for a competition for singing slip through my fingers for fear of failing or to take part in the competition and give it my all. Of all the choices to be made and already made I'd choose the latter.

In this past month I've actually learned a lot on choices. I've learned

♥ You are free to make whatever choice you want, but you are not free from the consequences of the choice.
♥Everything in your life is a reflection of a choice you have made, if you want a different result make a different choice.
♥ Choices determine character.
♥ Life is all about making choices, always do your best to make the right ones and always do your best to learn from the wrong one's.
♥ Next time you're faced with a choice, do the right thing. It will hurt everyone less in the long run.
♥ It's the scary choices that end up being the most worthwhile.
♥ You can't make positive choices for the rest of your life without an environment that make those choices easy, natural and enjoyable.
♥ There are TWO primary choices in life; to accept conditions as they exist or accept the responsibility for changing them.
♥ Take life as it is or leave it.
♥ Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places.
♥ Make good choices today so you don't have regrets tomorrow.
♥ You are free to choose but you are not free from the consequence of your choice.
♥ When something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you, let it destroy you or you can let it strengthen you.
♥ You must make a choice to take a chance or your life eill never change.
♥ We can think about things, turn them over in our minds a million times, play out possible scenarios, but really when it comes down to it , you have to go with your heart and move forward. Maybe things will go well. Maybe they will turn out poorly. Every decision brings with some good, some bad, some lessons and some luck. The only thing that's for sure is that indecision steals many years from people who wind up wishing they'd just had the courage to leap.
♥ Who you are is what makes you special. What lies ahead will always be a mystery. Do not be afraid to explore. When life pushes you over you push back harder. Where there are choices to make, make the one's you won't regret. Why things happen will never be certain. Take it in stride and move forward.
All the choices I have to make of one I had to make, I chose the latter. To sum it all up I'd rather make a choice with an open heart that way I don't end up regretting it. I'd rather make the choice that will make me happy in the long run. No matter how hard a choice might be I have to make it making sure it's the right one.

Phew! I've taken a month to update this I can't believe. But between being stressed with work, being sick and practicing on my singing it proved to be almost impossible. Well now I've finally updated and I'm beyond glad. I've decided on an updating schedule and it's only going to be once a week atleast. Pssst one the choices I had to make was whether to update or not. Well don't get me wrong. I just feel discourage and I feel like what I write is not good enough to be read. Anyway please vote or comment it will be highly appreciated.

Love

Utopian19