Boyfriend? Wala ako nun e.

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3. Wala talagang nanliligaw sakin e.

Hmmmmm, in this situation, wag kang ma down! Hindi porke walang nanliligaw sayo e hindi ka na magkakaboyfriend!

Hindi kaya ako ligawin. Promise!

Ganito lang yan, hindi pa right time.

Wag ka kasi masyadong excited! Pag mas desperada ka, mas lalo hindi dadating yun. Proven and tested!

Things happen unexpectedly. Mas masaya masurprise ka kaysa hintay ka ng hintay tapos sa pagmamadali mo, maling tao pala yung napili mo.

Kaya wag ka na kumanta ng Mr. Right ni Kim Chui. Kumanta ka nalang ng Love Myself ni Hailee Steinfield!

Huwag ka madown na bakit lahat sila may boyfriend, ikaw nalang single. Ienjoy mo kasi ang buhay! Baka naman ilang taon ka na nagdadrama kung kailan ka magkakaboyfriend. That won't just work!

Know yourself. Date yourself. Surround yourself with your friends and family. Enjoy doing things what you love (sana hindi mo love yung magwala dahil single ka).Distract yourself from thinking about having a boyfriend. Serve God! Punta ka sa mga church ministries. Ang dami friend! Ang sarap mabuhay ng single diba?

Wag ka madepress na wala pa siya. God is preparing you for your "the one."

Hindi mo mamamalayan isang araw, bigla ka kikiligin. Hindi dahil sa love story ng iba, pero dahil may nainlove na sayo.

Hindi ka panget kaya walang nanliligaw sayo.

Hindi mo pa siya nakikilala kaya ganun. Just enjoy your life being single!

Yung iba nga may nanligaw lang sa kanila 20+ year old na! Everything has its own PERFECT TIME. Huwag ka ma dismaya o ma frustrate o kung anu-ano pang negative vibes!

MASAYA MAGING SINGLE OKAY?!

Imagine, in my whole life being a single (until now):
15: I serve God by joining a church choir. I gained a lot of friends and my faith is awesome! Hindi ako forever depress because I have a God, to lean on.

16: First year college ako I auditioned in a University choir and I became committed to it and it took me to a lot of places! I also got a chance to compete to an International Choral Competition in Thailand! O diba?! Masaya din ang single!

17: I am learning and learning and growing and become more and more appreciative of what I have.

18: I was offered a contract in some Songwriting Company but turned it down because of financial problem.
I also auditioned and got accepted in a Huge event in L.A but again turned it down for some personal reasons.

Kung hindi ko inenjoy ang buhay ko as a single and nagfocus sa kailan ako liligawan ni ganyan? Sa tingin mo maaachieve ko yun?

Look around you. You still have a long way to go! You are blessed because you have many many reasons to live and not to ask yourself kung bakit walang nanliligaw sayo.

Masyado marami lang na plano si God that maybe pag niligawan ka e madistract ka.

Diba nakakadistract din mainlove? Don't get me wrong. Pag inlove ka hindi ka mapakali, it just depends on your situation if sobrang committed kayo sa isa't isa or you decided to focus on your studies first.

Understand the other possibilities.

You have the time of the world. Enjoy it.

So do not worry about being single. Mainlove ka muna sa sarili mo at kay God. And it'll follow. :)