I know I haven't really talked much about serious stuff in this book but now I am.
I am personally a very insecure person and I have my days where I think I look amazing and then days where I feel terrible in my own skin.
Knowing this feeling, I don't want anyone to feel this way about themselves.
You will only be able to live in one body, so do not make it uncomfortable to live in it.
Stop comparing yourself to others.
Who cares how little Jane got her eyebrows to look so perfectly fleeked? Who cares that Sarah has a small waist and a big booty?
My point is, you need to learn how to live your own body and stop wishing you can live in others' bodies. It just ruins your outlook on yourself
And for girls, do not change for guys or feel like you have to change for guys.
Many girls wish they could change their bodies because of males or just anyone they feel interested with.
I promise you, if you feel like you have to change in order to be with someone, they are not the one for you and you do not deserve to waste your time on people who force you to feel this way.
We live in such a diverse world where women can be loved for being any color, body type, weight, and culture, etc. So love yourself
Finally, and most importantly, Surround yourself with positive people who will empower you, not drag you down.
If you ever need someone to talk to, please contact me. I'm always here to talk
I love you guys ,
~ Chandi
