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Stages on moving on are hereby follows:
1. Denial — If you're on this stage, bitter ka. Syempre fresh pa lang yung mga nangyari so natural lang yan. Pero sasabihin mo "sus, naka move on na ako." or "wala na ako pake sakanya, duh".
2. Anger — This stage proves na galit ka sa kanya. Dito mo marerealize lahat lahat ng kasalanan niya kahit maliit lang. You'll be mad because of overthinking.
3. Bargaining — Worst stage. Yung feeling mo may chance pa na maayos lahat. Yung nagbibigay sya ng motibo and you feel like there's another chance para maging kayo ulit. In short, aasa ka na naman.
4. Acceptance — In this stage, matatanggap mo na lahat. You'll eventually realize na you're just wasting your time crying and begging for love. Matatanggap mo na yung masakit na katotohanang wala nang KAYO.
5. Forgiveness — Last but definitely not the least. Mapapatawad mo na siya sa lahat ng nagawa niya sayo simply because napatawad mo na rin yung sarili mo. Napaka saya ng part na ito, I promise.
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Those are the stages of moving on. If you're already on the last part without lying to yourself, you're good to go. If you can't be honest with yourself, you won't meet success. Wag kang magmadali mag move on, time ang kelangan jan. Wag mo lagi sasabihin na naka move on ka na pero pag nakita mo siya aasa ka ulit. Hayaan mong yung oras mismo magsabi sayo na "nakita mo siya. wala nang kirot diba?"
It's happy to have someone by your side. But then again, it's nice to stay single. Walang problema. Pero heartbreaks? Yes they come. They're inevitable surely. Kaso nakabase lang yan kung papatalo tayo. We're strong humans, problema lang yan. Yung iba nga halos wala nang pamilya e pero they still managed to survive. True definition of strong. Sana ganon tayo lahat.
Life is going to be full of ups and downs, my dear. Hindi pedeng puro na lang kaligayahan. We need to teach ourselves how to be independent and immune. Moving On doesn't always necessarily mean heartbreak, forgiveness, and finding a new one. It's all about being the strong person to get through something with your own mind and heart. I'm so proud of you, whoever you are.
You've got to always put in your mind na someone out there loves you. You're not alone even if sometimes you feel like it. Basta lagi ka lang mag pePray and just communicate with Him and everything will be alright.
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a/n : damn! tapos na siya! 😭 thank you readers! move on na hm? love lots. 💓
