Paano ba mag-move on?
Aaminin ko na medyo natuwa nga ako sa guess ko na si RJ yung nagbigay ng Statbucks coffee. Para kasing siya yun eh.
Parang lang naman.
Paano kapag hindi siya? Move on nalang?
Oo nga no! Dapat pala nagmu-move on ako, hindi umaasa.
Nandito ako sa Café malapit sa office.
Nagfi-free wifi at nagkakape na din pampatigil ng pagmumuni tungkol sa nagbigay ng kape. Pero mukhang mas lumala ang pagiisip ko dahil sa Café pa talaga ako nagpunta.
Kailan ba ako lalayuan ng pag-iisip?
Napakahirap. Sobrang hirap. Kasi magna-9 Months na, di pa din ako maka get over.
Miss na miss ko na siya.
Siguro yung step 1 ay kalimutan siya.
Dumeretso ako sa Google at nagcheck kung meron ba sa internet ng "Ways to move on"
Infairness, Meron..
What happens after break up :
1. Denial. This is the stage wherein you can't accept the fact that it's over. You are still feeding yourself the idea that it didn't happen.
2. Anger. This is the stage wherein you are just mad of everything. You try to tell everyone how psycho your ex was. This is when you give reasons to validate that he's not worthy of you.
3. Bargaining. This is the stage wherein you are still looking for possible ways to save the relationship.
4. Depression. The feeling of being tired all the time, not wanting to do anything but lay in bed, feeling disconnected from people even when you're with them, being on the verge of tears most of the time, trouble sleeping or sleeping too much, loss of appetite or overeating, increase in drug or alcohol use and (the big one) hopelessness.
5. Acceptance. This is the last part and the sweetest. This when you can really say that you are over him/her. You are now ready for the next chapter of your life.
Moving on takes time. Don't force yourself to move on. Feel the pain. Cry. You'll get there.
Mali pala.
What if mag-conduct nalang ako ng sarili kong paraan sa pagmu-move on?
"Hoy! Babaitang Denice!" Tawag sakin ni Fely.
"Magparty tayo sa bar! Kailumutan natin ang trabaho."
Step 1: Forget and Enjoy life.
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