boy meets girl

Part IV

Ilang gabi nakong napupuyat kakaisip kay Cayla.

Yes, I admit it.
I'm inlove with her.
I want to court her.

Kaya pumunta ako kay kuya Revodem Avarientos para humingi ng Godly na payo.

Oh Caleb napadalaw ka? tanong sakin ni kuya.

A-ano kase kuya napakamot ko sa ulong sagot.

Ano nga? natatawang tanong ni kuya.

Kuya I want to court Cayla kaya lang gusto ko himingi ng payo sayo kase iba ang payo kapag galing sa Godly man.

Ganun ba? tara dun tayo sa garden.

At pumunta nga kame sa garden.

Alam mo Caleb  " You think you found the woman you want to marry. You share the same faith with Jesus, and have prayed for her many times. (tama sana si Cayla na kuya) Now, you want to go beyond the "friend zone ".Before moving to uncharted territory, I have four precautionary steps for you Caleb.

First, God is number 1. Your relationship with God should be the first priority in life. All things fall into the right perspective when we look at things through God's viewpoint. If you put God first, and follow His Word, then you will have a clear understanding of what is right and what is wrong. If you are unsure, ask yourself this one question : "What would God say about this?"

Second, develop the friendship. You think you know her well?  I am sure there's still much to discover about her. Spending time with her will allow you to know her better.

Third, court with marriage as the goal. Make sure that when you start the courtship process, you do so with the intention of marriage. As Jesus loves His Church, so you would treat her kindly with love and respect. Have pure intentions and, wait for God's perfect time for marriage.

Fourth, give her space, enjoy your own. While spending more time with her, remember that she is her own person. Give her space so she can enjoy life. Cherish her individuality. Make time to enjoy your life as well, so that when you meet, there will be fresh excitement and new things to share with each other.

And the  fifth and last Caleb be accountable to someone. It is important to share your intentions with a mature Christian brother what you did right now is very good. Being accountable will help ensure that you will not do anything inappropriate during the courting process.

Courting is an adventure, with its highs and lows.
Remember to pray, obey and trust God.

Wow! I have made the right decision to go here kuya :) thank you!

Walang anuman Caleb!
Tara sa loob at kumain nagutom ako kaka-english e.

At nagtawanan kameng pumasok sa dining room nila.

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1Timothy 5:1-2

"Rebuke not an elder, but entreat him as a father, and the younger men as brethren, the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters with all purity. "

Lord pumayag man si Cayla o hindi na maging girlfriend o ligawan ko.
Magiging faithful ako at gagamitin ko ang oras ko na mag serve sayo habang di pa perfect time for us.

In Jesus Name, I pray.
Amen